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34 M Chicago, IL

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 28–34
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Graduated from law school
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I was born in England, near London. I use words like brilliant and other idioms from across the pond. But I'm very American in many respects.

I moved from San Francisco roughly four years ago. I miss the ocean.

I am tall, fearless, lack pretense, authentic, reflective, mindful, thoughtful, and loyal.
What I’m doing with my life
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Keeping rich people rich is exhausting; but I still have the passion to engage in other more noble (artistic) pursuits. Discovering hidden gems. Brunch in the morning and live music at night. Planning where to travel next or upon retirement.

"To live is so startling it leaves little time for anything else." - Emily Dickinson
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Speaking without thinking. knowing when to refrain from correcting another person's grammar or spelling. allusions and iterations. conjecture. compromise.
The first things people usually notice about me
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I look (somewhat) younger than my age; albeit, maybe that's something people say to you to be kind when you reach a certain life stage.

Or that I am perceptive about other people.

Or that I have hearing aid inconspicuously in my left ear, which is something I'm comfortable with now, after having it for a year. While this is unusual for someone in their thirties, which could make me feel more vulnerable, I've learned to internalize it as something that defines my experience in a positive way.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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The Great Gatsby is my favorite. I am currently reading Proust's In Search of Lost Time in its entirety upon book club. I'm also interested in nonfiction-- currently, i'm reading The Bully Pulpit (I'm a fan of Theodore Roosevelt).

The National, Florence and the Machine, The Kills, The Walkmen, Beirut, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Beck, Birdy, Lorde, Bob Dylan, Leonard Cohen, Chvrches, Nirvana

Pan's Labyrinth, Amélie, Roman Holiday, The Royal Tenenbaums, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Almost Famous, Amores Perros, Babel, Band of Outsiders

The Big Bang Theory, Anthony Bourdain Parts Unknown, Fareed Zakaria GPS, Chopped, Louis C.K.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
passion, mountains, integrity, exploration, inquiry, memory
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
song lyrics and literary references
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
out with a friend watching a movie. or sharing a drink. or being comfortable alone reading a book or engaged in another activity akin to that one.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
This is a rather awkward question to answer for the consumption of the masses. I'll pass here.
You should message me if
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You are interesting and interested.