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26 San Diego, CA Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 20–28
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Nov 21, 2013
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Christianity, and laughing about it
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Dropped out of university
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
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I am good at what I do. That tends to be a rather self centered statement, but bear with me: I believe that anything worth doing is worth doing well, and I don't waste effort doing half a job when I can spend a tiny bit more to do the job right.

Oh, and for those who know me: yes, I dropped a bear pun in the second sentence. Stay classy. ;P
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I manage a concert venue near UCSD campus, as well as doing networking and audio-visual work for a couple conventions around SD. I don't make all that much money, but that's really okay with me, since I do what I love and I love what I do. I'm still in the transitional period of networking and making contacts in the music industry, before I try to break out and make another leap for bigger and better things. It's the most boring part, but you've gotta have that foundation set or you'll have nothing to build upon.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
If I had to pick three things, it would be computers in general, the technical side of music, and drinking. Particularly that last one, since most people don't expect someone as thin as I am to drink them under the table - and you can consider that a challenge. :)
The first things people usually notice about me
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My serious-face. My entire family has a bad case of serious-face. I swear I'm enjoying myself, why won't people believe meeeeeeee?

I crack jokes. Lots of jokes. Sarcasm, off the cuff remarks, puns, tongue in cheek comments, you name it. I try to stay away from the offensive stuff, but I can honestly say that sometimes I don't see the Line of Tact, trip over it, and sail headlong into I'm Going To Hell For Laughing At This land.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh God, here we go.

Books: the Star Wars Expanded Universe. I feel like I haven't mentioned Star Wars yet, which is a travesty because DEAR GOD I LOVE STAR WARS ahem, sorry. Also, the King Arthur and Sir Apropos trilogies, both by Peter David, as well as the Song of Ice and Fire series by GRRM. (If you have theories about what's going to happen next in the books, make sure to message me: I do so love to discuss wild ASoIaF theories). The Eisenhorn Trilogy, set in Warhammer 40K, is another really good trilogy. Has anyone noticed the best things usually come in trilogies? Like the Lord of the Rings trilogy, how did I almost forget that one?

TV Shows: Community. Game of Thrones, to a lesser extent than I like the books... The actors are great, though. I can't think of anything else, off-hand. I don't want much TV, I prefer Doin Thangs(tm).

Music: I'll spare you a novel and just go with the bands I have on my phone. All That Remains, Amaranthe, Avenged Sevenfold, Breaking Benjamin, Bullet for My Valentine, Dark Tranquility, Darkest Hour, Delain, Fireflight, Five Finger Death Punch, Hurt, In This Moment, Machinae Supremacy, Masterplan, The Material, My Darkest Days, Persuader, The Red Ribbon Army, Scar Symmetry, Shinedown, Sirenia, Slipknot, Stone Sour, Three Days Grace, Thrice, Within Temptation.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Video games.
The Internet.
Yolo Hamster. He's a... Well, I don't know what he is, but I call him a hamster. He's a stuffed animal who wears a hoodie that says yolo on it. He is the only thing associated with the "word" yolo that I will tolerate. He's pretty super sweet.

(Note: I would have listed friends, but those are people, not things, and that's cheating.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Frequencies, specifically in the audible range of the human ear.
Electricity, as it relates to said frequencies and also as it powers things.
When I'm finally gonna get to go to a metal concert again! UGH.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Mixing artists at a concert at work. I mean, it's work, but it's also free concerts almost every week, that I get to let a few friends in on. I think it balances out in my favor quite a bit.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Uh... Huh. I'm actually having a hard time coming up with something. I don't really keep things private. Just ask me stuff. Or look at the questions section, those things test even my openness!
You should message me if
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You're a cool person. Or just, in general. Say hi. Say what's up. Say purple monkey dishwasher, I don't care.

No, but really, if someone messages me just saying purple monkey dishwasher, I'll be pretty psyched.

Edit: nobody has yet messaged me saying purple monkey dishwasher. I'm actually kind of disappointed