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james_in_clt

37 Charlotte, NC Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 26–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity, and laughing about it
Sign
Aries, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Technology
Income
$100,000–$150,000
Status
Single
Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
It's time to refresh this profile. I'm a pretty laid back kind of guy who prefers to sit and relax with friends then to dance it up in a club. My normal attire in the summer are shorts and a t-shirt but I can clean up if needed.

I'll be honest I have some pet peeves about this site. So if you're reading this and it fits what you are doing, we'll probably not hit it off.

1. Fill out your profile. Give me something to freaking talk about in my opening communication. I see so many women go "I won't respond to hi or hello" but they don't really give us much to work with. If you won't put effort into your profile then I don't anticipate you putting effort into a relationship.

2. Picture please. I don't need to see 15 of them but at least take the time to put your picture in your profile. Again, it helps to see if I'd even be attracted to you.

3. What the hell does "short-term dating" imply??? I don't know about y'all but I figure there are 2 things people are looking for here: hook-ups and long term relationships. So is short-term dating = friends with benefits????

4. Tell us what you want explicitly. If you don't know, why the fuck are you here?

I might sound a little jaded but this site kinda sucks sometimes when interacting.

What I'm looking for:

I want a woman who can meet me halfway. She doesn't need to be some model but at least someone who obviously takes care of herself. I'm no Brad Pitt so I don't expect Jennifer Aniston. (I don't think Angelina is that hot)

I want to be with someone who:
1. Can hold up her end of the conversation
2. Is comfortable with herself and her body
3. Can hold a job and has a career or a career planned
4. Loves to laugh
5. Doesn't need to be by my side 100% of the time

Yes, I have high standards.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Working at a job I really like and enjoying family and friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Turning anything into a joke
Teaching
Making a fool of myself to make someone laugh
Eating BBQ
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
To tell the truth I have no idea. If I had to say something it'd be my massive calf muscles that happened because I tend to walk on my toes and always have. It's like doing calf raises all day every day.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Pride and Prejudice, any Star Wars book (I'm a geek at heart), anything by Kevin Smith, etc. Getting more and more into non-fiction lately.

Movies: anything but horror.

Music: I listen to country and occasionally rock.

Food: American, Italian, German, Mexican, Sushi, some Chinese. Texture based food palette.

TV: don't watch a whole lot of it but I love Castle and How I Met Your Mother.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. My family
2. My friends
3. Sports
4. Beef
5. Pie (mmm pie)
6. Books
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
So many things I can barely keep them straight.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably hanging with a friend, getting in a round of golf, or something along those lines.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I like chick flicks...
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
See above sections. If you didn't read it, go read it.

Also - I enjoy a girl who is "snarky" or can be sarcastic along with me.

Finally messages that say just hi or how are you will be ignored. There's enough in my profile to start a conversation so start one.