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jamesbear

44 / M / gay / Single

Oklahoma City, Oklahoma

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White, Other
Height
5' 8" (1.72m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Long-term dating, Activity partners, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Taurus
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Kids
Likes children
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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I am kind, calm, and persistent.

My Self-Summary

kind hearted caring person,shy at fist at meeting new people ,open up to friends. I have high functioning aspergers (a form of autism). Love to do creative stuff. I like people who are calm and cheerfull and open minded.

What I’m doing with my life

Im trying to get more involved in the film idustry. Either doing film and video production or set design and contruction.
Hopefully meet a nice caring guy to settle down with.

I’m really good at

Im good at art , painting , sculting, constructing things.
Listenting to peoples problems. Incourageing others.

The first things people usually notice about me

I don't say much fist couple times i meet someone in a social situation. open up when i get to know some one better.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

A. BOOKS. Like how to books. Art books, photography, arquitecture.
B.MOVIES. Scifi,fantacy films, mysteries, ghost ,foreign,dramas documantaries.Musicals
C. MUSIC. POP rock, ethic world music, classical, folk music, some opera
D. FOODS. Thai food, chines, korean, Italian, Greek , Organic vegies.

The six things I could never do without

Ice cubes,Dictionary or spell checking, Cheerful people,chines food.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

People.

On a typical Friday night I am

Go out and observe people. If not that stay home watch tv or do art projects.
Love going to the movies, art galleries, live local bands.
sometimes i can be a hermit.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

slow at typing...

You should message me if

would like converse.