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39 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 25–42
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 1:00pm
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body type
Catholicism, and laughing about it
Graduated from university
Rather not say
Doesn’t have kids
Has dogs

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Need to update this....Will do eventually. Must plan world domination and nap schedule first.
What I’m doing with my life
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I was a full time working man but now transitioned to an independent "consultant" which I am finding is waaaaay better (assuming I have a gig\client). I'm not incorporated per se but this is working and I like the schedule it affords.

UPDATE: Have a full time job that affords the flexibility of working from home part-time which is totally sweet. I started biking to work which is also kind of fun.

UPDATE 2: no more work from home. Got an even better job but now requires my attendance. Did I mention better job?
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
* procrastinating things that need to get done
* spontaneously random thoughts\dreams\ideas (that often end up on the procrastination list)
* making people laugh until their sides hurt or milk comes out of their nose (even if they're not drinking milk) - it is a gift
* witty, quick comebacks
The first things people usually notice about me
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My hunch back and excessive drooling.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books - Green Eggs and Ham, Count of Monte Cristo, Of Mice and Men....typical books from my youth. Foundation Series by Asimov was cool too.
Movies - Sci Fi Nerd : Star Wars, Star Trek 2,3 & 4, Clash of the Titans (original, not remake), The Godfather, Goodfellas...
Music - anything and everything but not a big rap or country music person.
Food - anything but pickles and asparagus - hate that shit.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My puppy, Rocco.
NYC (west side - I can do without the east side)
My muppet star wars figures
Charmin toilet paper (I have a sensitive side)
Crock Pot (for churning out mass quantities of meat)
My myriad New Balance sneakers
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
eat then nap or nap then eat....
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
behaving like an old man and calling it a night early. I'm usually doing the netflix thing. I may do an early dinner with some friends but for the most part I'm wrapping it early. I am slowly making the transition to a morning person and would rather have a long Saturday starting in the am vs up all night on a Friday night.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I don't hate cats but my dog does. UPDATE: The dog that hated cats passed away in March. I have a new puppy though it is yet to be determined if he "likes" cats or not. My gut feeling is he does not. He does love everything else...sorry, cat people.