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jamesmay

33 M Madison Heights, MI

My Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 5:19pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m)
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Religion
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Sign
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Dropped out of two-year college
Job
Hospitality
Income
$40,000–$50,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm back.

First thing I'm going to do is check your favorites. It's important to me that you have good taste. That's just me.

The need to write about myself is always the worst part of putting something like this together. Who wants to hear me talk about myself in vague terms. We all have to do it, though. so..

I'm a pretty nice guy I guess. I like various mediums of art strongly. Movies are a big passion of mine. I like to cook, I do it as a bit of a hobby since cooking as a single person is somewhat expensive/wasteful. I need to throw more dinner parties, but I just moved and need time to adjust before thinking about that.

I work too damned much, but who doesn't these days. I like my job but I'm no workaholic, just busy. It's said that the measure of success is when everybody wants your time and while I'm not there just yet, I feel like that is where my life is headed. I'm surprisingly okay with it.

I am fascinated, passionate, and open to growth. Hit me up. I'm easy.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Managing at a restaurant (of the casual variety). Really want to own a restaurant of my own design someday, but it's still a distant dream (I'm nothing if not cautious).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Getting folks to like me. I'm as socially political as someone of my slight stature is forced to be. I'm good at finding things to like in people unless they really give me a bad initial impression.

I think I cook decently. I sure like eating some of it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't know ask people! My terrific beard? Maybe my lighthearted nature or my extreme sex appeal (maybe that's a stretch, maybe).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
a. Paul Feig Sarah Vowell Grant Morrison Warren Ellis H.P. Lovecraft Isaac Asimov anything that catches my interest even if I don't do as much as I used to.
b. Stephen Chow Takeshi Kitano David Cronenberg Akira Kurosawa David Lynch too many loves to name, seriously, movies are kind of my thing. Mainly dark uncomfortable stuff
c. Fleetwood Mac Arcade Fire LCD Soundsystem Phoenix !!! Beck weirdo dance music, anything that has a good hook and makes me happy.
d. sushi mediterranean Thai and really most anything once.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My friends and family, my own bed, movies, expensive beers,coffee, and the necessaries (food, water, oxygen)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Work, movies, sports, I don't know...dogs with their heads out car windows.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Pretty open these days. I like having a nice dinner and enjoying a couple drinks.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I practiced ballet for a bit in high school. I'm not embarrassed by it, but other folks estimation of such a thing is different than my own.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–37
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You like going to do interesting new things, seeing movies (arthouse and big spectacle stuff), bar crawling, or just hanging out at coffeeshops talking. I'm stupid for food. If you want someone to go out food traveling with I'm your guy.

Alternate answer: For any reason ever. I'm bored!