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jamestam

29 / M / Straight / Single

South Bend, Indiana

His Details

Last Online
May 18
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 8″ (2.03m).
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Cancer but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on college/university
Job
Medicine / Health
Income
$20,000–$30,000
Offspring
Pets
Has dogs
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay), Mongolian (Okay)

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My self-summary
Let's see physically I am a tall, chubby guy. I usually am sporting beard.

Personality wise I am a pretty normal. I love to help people. I am one of the people that will go out of my way to help people, that being said I am also a bit of an asshole. I am honest to a fault, enough that it has cost me friendships. I do go out of my not to be a douchebag that only thinks about myself. When people do dumb or selfish things, it sorta pisses me off. I am not trying to say people need to be like me, I am just saying my mom taught me better than to be one of these d-bags out there to have 4 kids and not take care of them. And I see way too many of those jerks running around.

I am looking for a beach buddy during the summer and a snuggle buddy during the winter. A friend/lover combination would be awesome.

I am not looking to be married within a year, and I am not looking to make a "friend with benefits" type of thing. I am just looking for a relationship:)
What I’m doing with my life
I currently work in a super busy pharmacy. I don't really want to make it a career, but it currently pays my bills. Once I can go back to school, I want to become a child therapist.
I’m really good at
I am an awesome friend. I can usually make almost any situation fun.
The first things people usually notice about me
I am extremely tall. Then after that I am pretty loud and outgoing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
My taste is a little unique. I would rather see something that is artsy fartsy, than something that is just made for simple enjoyment. That being said, I like a lot of "cult classics."
Books
Fight Club
Most of the Stuff by Tim Sandlin
I don't read much, so I don't really expand this list anymore
Movies
Fight Club
Gangs of New York
Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
There Will Be Blood (Daniel Day Lewis is a beast)
Shows
Don't watch much TV. And what I do watch is usually cartoons ;)
Music
I love music, a bit more than your average joe. I love anything that is an emotional statement. I listen to everything. I do not dig most pop music though.
Food.
Food is good:) especially ethnic foods.
The six things I could never do without
Love (I am putting God's love, friends and family, and even romantic love)
my puppy
art (music especially)
truth
um.... popsicles
and beaches
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can improve stuff. Dumb things that make me giggle inside. Women.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I normally would rather be correct than happy. Most people will change their perception of the world to be happy. I try to see things as they are. It is a goal.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 23–33
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You like tall chubby guys.... IDK if you want. If you send me a email, I will respond. It is only courteous.