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29 • Boston, MA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 22–39
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Yesterday – 1:36pm
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Atheism, and very serious about it
- Scorpio, but it doesn’t matter
- Open relationship
- Strictly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Has dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently), Latin (Poorly), LISP (Okay)
I try not to take myself too seriously.
I am ethically non-monogamous and I live with my primary partner (update: now wife!!!) in Boston's North End; though I travel to San Francisco enough that I am considering making it my home base :) If my location is set that means I'll be around for at least a week; so feel free to get in touch.
I'm currently President of a small company building products focused on enterprise mobility and BYOD.
In my spare time I enjoy exploring the local restaurant scene, drinking tasty brews, going to meetups with developers, dancing my ass off with fellow kinksters, and attempting to resist the urge to run off to the bay area.
My personal motivations are quite modest. I will change the world in some meaningful way. I'm still working on the how bit.
A few of my favorite things: The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy, The Mighty Boosh, Always Sunny in Philadelphia, Farscape, Frisky Dingo, Archer, Monty Python, Good Eats, Top Chef, Doctor Who, Last Week Tonight, GoT, Star Trek, Children of Men, V for Vendetta, Clint Mansell, Shiny Toy Guns, Gorillaz, Daft Punk, Bond, ES Posthumus, most classical or jazz I hear, earl grey, Guinness, curry, nigiri, gin, falafel, COFFEE, and holy fuck do I love WHISKY.
Anything with Simon Pegg, Nathan Fillion, or Matt Berry.
Is this where I should mention that I'd marry Randall Munroe if only he'd say yes?
As midnight passes, you'll find me confusing myself over use of temporal nouns, "tomorrow? do you mean tomorrow tomorrow or today tomorrow?" and attempting to preemptively cure my saturday hangover with pickle juice and sports drinks. It works 100% of the time, 40% of the time... or something like that.
Oh and check me out on FL (same user-name) if that might be a point of compatibility, if not no big deal.
* you are self-confident
* you are open-minded
* you have a sense of humor (perhaps inappropriate at times)
* you can deal with a fair bit of spontaneity
* you want to meet in person rather than just send messages back and forth
* you are liberal (sorry, i get along with some conservatives but they are few and very far between)
* you are in or have been part of a functional non-monogamous relationship
* you're interested in group play or kink
* you like whisky, beer, coffee, and/or eating out too much
* you think this is the best thing ever: Get Lucky Vintage Irish Tenor Daft Punk Cover (sorry for the link mobile users)
* you'd like to cook with me :)
* you can help me become a better feminist (or person in general)
If you just think I'm cool, want to chat, and grab a beer
So what the fuck are you waiting for, send me a damn message already!
Batteries not included.
Not microwave safe.
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