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jamidk

35 Astoria, NY Man

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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 26–47
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Today – 12:55pm
Orientation
Gay
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 4″ (1.93m)
Body type
Fit
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Aries
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Art / Music / Writing
Income
Status
Single
Type
Monogamous
Offspring
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm from the midwest (MI) and grew up in a pretty rural area, but have always been a big city kind of guy. Still miss fresh air, being outside and getting dirty every once in a while though! (Camping, hiking, bonfires, beaches all make me extremely happy.) I think my 7 nieces and nephews are the coolest and most amazing people in the world!! The rest of my family is pretty awesome too.
I also love roller coasters, thunderstorms, Autumn in NYC, and Christmas...in no particular order.

I have a slight addiction to cookies, diet coke, and 80's power ballads. Trying to lay off the cookies and Diet Coke, but keep those power ballads coming!

I also still believe that out of 8 million people in this city, there has to be others looking for an old fashioned, committed, monogamus relationship with someone they can see spending their life with. I really hope I'm not wrong on this one. Definitely not looking for hookups, flings or casual sex right now. I'm in a good place to focus on something more substantial.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I've spent my life so far working in musical theatre and loving it. Getting to a point now where I'm looking to find other things I enjoy too.
I took some time lately to focus on other endeavors I'd like to pursue in the next year or two. I'd like to find something with a little more stability, but that I'm still passionate about.

That being said, I recently got to play a dream role at a theatre in Hawaii. Best job I've ever had for so many reasons!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Laughing and enjoying life to its fullest. I think I'm pretty good at other things too, but will let you decide!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My height for sure and then probably my smile.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Not going to lie, I love Harry Potter. Have been revisiting a lot of classics lately. I will basically read anything someone recommends. I have a soft spot for Young Adult novels. I am secure enough to embrace that. Haha

Movies: The Color Purple, Finding Neverland, 500 Days of Summer, the Lord of the Rings trilogy. I watch a lot of movies and could go on forever.
Childhood favorites are Dirty Dancing and Adventures in Babysitting! Also, most Disney movies. Waiting for Guffman is probably the funniest movie I've ever seen and I love horror movies, especially with someone to cuddle with!

TV: I enjoy How I Met Your Mother, Downton Abbey, Parenthood, Modern Family and reruns of Will and Grace, Friends, and Golden Girls!...with some guilty pleasures like The entire CW lineup thrown in there. (Don't judge!) Not a huge fan of most reality TV.

Musically, I can find enjoyment in most genres. Not a huge metal or rap fan though.

I like, or am at least willing to try, any kind of food.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends & Family
Theatre
Travel and adventure
Laughter and Fun
Sleep
An adult beverage after a long day
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Lately, why guys (including myself sometimes) have such a hard time with communication.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully appreciating a glass of wine or cold beer with good conversation. Maybe at home taking it easy too. Both are nice. Both would be nicer with someone special.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I consider PB&J a fantastic meal choice.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to. Never hurts to say hello.

I can finally say that I'm in a great place to be open and ready for a relationship. Looking to meet and date other guys who are in a similar place. Not looking for casual or "no strings attached" interactions. I think I kind of like the strings.

Also, if you know what a cooter slam is or are curious to know. It's really what life is all about!

Ok I wont leave you wondering...here's the answer.

"Cooter Slam-verb- A jump into a split that is so fierce that your cooter actually bitch-slaps the floor."