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jammer_a

38 / M / straight / Single

Guilford, Connecticut

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5' 8" (1.72m).
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New friends, Long-term dating, Short-term dating
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Trying to quit
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I am a big, geeky, and doofus.

My Self-Summary

well.
inveterate blogger.
geek of the first order.
12 year IT professional.
Veteran.
I've been in CT for 24 years, but bounced around quite extensively before that. I own the most computers of anyone you'll meet and probably more comics that anyone you know. I'm considered "the cool uncle" by my 11 nieces and nephews.
I've learned a lot of strange and off-to-the-side things as I've gone along.
I was once teased into reading all 7 Harry Potter's over the course of last summer because "my cape and cowl were going to be taken away if i didn't." (that's a direct quote, but i do NOT own a cape and cowl. Maybe one day.

Normally people wouldn't reveal this much geek ahead of time, but frankly, this is precisely who I am.

My geekiness does not overshadow my nerdiness; I'm in a constant research mode; if I suddenly come across something interesting, I'll absorb everything I can about that subject.

Nor does it overshadow basic human interaction skills. I understand what a date is and how it can be fun, I understand compliments and how to give and take them. I have manners, courtesy, and thoughtfulness for others.

and the one on the right is Shinola.

What I’m doing with my life

I'm saving for a house. I'm databasing my comics. I'm practicing my backswing, and Im getting better with golf all the time. I'm taking Fencing lessons. (for god's sake, not white pickets. Foil.)
I'm trying to find a stage combat class. Producing a weekly comics podcast.

I’m really good at

troubleshooting computers and organizing household storage. I've gotten pretty good with a 7 iron drive, and a 9.

i cook like a madman.

The first things people usually notice about me

....is that they can't help a Fonzie or Andrew Dice Clay comparison. After that it' usually the incredibly thick black hair or striking hazel eyes. (could that have gotten more self-serving?)

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

sigh. westerns,(unforgiven, the searchers, tombstone) starwars,
Shopenhauers' Telescope, Blues, big fan of steak, italian, korean, chinese.

The six things I could never do without

my blog. my car. my books. my job.
I can't really think of six, because with those, I can get to or acquire anything else-as a young'un, we didn't have a whole hell of a lot, so a possession needs to be incredibly important, useful, and sentimental for me to say "i can't do without it"

I spend a lot of time thinking about

the zen of computer troubleshooting.
how to finance my upcoming house.
What to talk about on my podcast.

On a typical Friday night I am

at a bar or a buds.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

i have a lightsabre

You should message me if

you're ready for a committed guy with a number of facets that still haven't been found yet.