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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 48–65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:47pm
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Rather not say
Has dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Norwegian (Okay)
My self-summary
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Happy guy with a low-key, dry sense of humor. I possess a strong independent streak, combined with great loyalty. I have a wonderful circle of eclectic friends whom I’ve known for years. I have an optimistic outlook and am grateful for how my life’s turned out. I’m committed to spiritual/personal growth, as it’s enabled me to view life in a more expansive way. I'm looking to share my life with a man who values kindness, romance, commitment and a warped sense of humor.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm currently an IT consultant (a far cry from my liberal arts roots). I'm having fun exploring other careers I'd be happy doing for the next 15-20 years.
I’m really good at
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being a friend. I listen well and am loyal and dependable. I can find the humor in almost any situation. I'm really good at organizing stuff. And I'm a great napper.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my smile
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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What I'm reading now: The Autobiography of Lincoln Steffens, The Artist's Way, A Bell for Adano, Tales from the Tao, The Martha Beck Collection
Favorite movies: The Last Picture Show, Cabaret, Gone with the Wind, The Lives of Others, Enchanted April, Departures, Swingtime
Favorite restaurants: Jardiniere, Don Pico's, Perbacco, Chenery Park
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Friends and family
A pile of books to read
Turner Classic Movies
My gym membership
Mexican food
Daily meditation
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
metaphysics and how we create our own reality.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
having dinner with good friends or else doing laundry and watching a movie.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Online? Are you kidding?
You should message me if
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you want to find out more.