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57 Spearfish, SD Woman


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 40-65
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Apr 11
Open relationship
5' 4" (1.63m)
Body Type
Other but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids and doesn’t want them
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I am now living in the best place...Spearfish, SD!!!! I love it here!!!!!

PLEASE... Read the entire profile before contacting me!!! And live no more than 3 hours away.

I'm polyamorous and If you do not understand what poly/polyamory is, please Google it before contacting me! I want to be & feel important to someone...just as I will make you important to me.

I love photography, humor & laughter, thunder storms, HONESTY, movies, riding motorcycles (the trophy on the back!), sports (Auburn University, Atlanta Braves, Carolina Panthers (Cam Newton rules!!!), cuddling. respect, romance, HONESTY, snuggling, disc golf (playing), holding hands, being in nature, Car Talk (may he rest in peace) & Wait, Wait Don't Tell Me - oh - did I say HONESTY?!

Also -- due to having asthma AND the fact I don't like the smell of smoke, I cannot be with anyone that smokes...anything at anytime. Sorry -- nothing personal or judgmental.

I'm also honest & blunt - some men can't take it! Oh well. It's who I am -- I'm not a diva, just honest. I'm not here to judge anyone -if you do drugs, that's fine, but I choose not to do them and not to be around anyone that does -- my life depend on this!

I'm NOT here for any "interludes" -- I'm here for real relationships. Thank you!

Speaking of being honest, I am also HSV-2 positive (herpes). I got this from someone who had no clue - no symptoms so please, when you get tested for STD's -- ask specifically for this test - it is a blood test & has to be requested.

I love most music...but NOT hard country & rap.

PLEASE...have at least one picture where you are smiling!!!!! I love smiles & shining eyes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Attempting to enjoy each day to the fullest.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being open & honest, laughter, talking, cuddling, living my journey
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes & my laughter
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Anything written by Jonathan Kellerman, most movies other than horror, most music other than profane rap & hard country, Thai & Chinese are my favs - and seafood!
Field of Dreams is my absolute favorite movie, second being Sound of Music, It Could Happen To You...most movies with a happy ending!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Honesty, laughter, love, romance & intimacy, sports (yes, a female that LOVES sports!), communication
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
My life, love, happiness and compersion.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
What is typical anyway?
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are open-minded, love life & laughter!
If you're closer than 150 miles away.
If you will write more than "Hi" -- write something original, something to catch my attention in a positive way, please!!!
If you're willing to ride in my convertible, top down, in the cold (with heat on!!)!
If you know & understand Compersion!
If you know the difference & can use your vs you're, their vs there & too vs two correctly! AND if you use you & not "u" & are & not "r"!!!
IF you're not married. Sorry -- I'm already in a poly relationship with a married man -- I truly wish for and want my own Primary relationship.

Also - please have a photo -- I can tell a lot about a person by their eyes!!