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janetheshep

18 F Oberlin, OH

I’m looking for

  • Guys and girls who like bi girls
  • Ages 18–30
  • Located anywhere
  • For short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 17
Orientation
Bisexual
Ethnicity
White
Height
4′ 10″ (1.48m)
Body Type
A little extra
Diet
Anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Atheism
Sign
Scorpio, and it’s fun to think about
Education
Working on high school
Job
Student
Income
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Has dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Latin

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My self-summary
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IMPORTANT: some of my questions are out of date. Message me with questions if you find inconsistencies.

Most important thing to know about me: I'm an intersectional feminist. I'm extremely into intersectionality and social justice.

My name is Christie! I'm very geeky, as I grew up surrounded by 1980s X-Men comics, a family with two generations of Dungeons and Dragons players, and video games galore. I'm also nerdy, because I'm a huge academia fan. I love school, I love learning, and I want to keep learning forever. I love to laugh. I have a big fixation with horror films. My favorite books are in the genres of fantasy, crime mystery, or historical fiction. I spend a lot of time singing, and I play guitar.

My personality type is ENTJ, if you wonder.

I identify as polyamorous, though I'm more than capable of having monoamorous relationships. I just prefer poly.

My sexuality works in periods or phases (not phases as in "short-lived and shallow," phases as in periodic time frames). I'm most often a biromantic demisexual, but I've been asexual, pansexual, gay, and straight in my time. The one thing that stays consistent is my demisexuality (unless I'm in an asexual chapter, of course).

Writing is one of my passions; I love all kinds. Journalism and historiography are fun, but my one true love is fiction writing. I'd never try to rely on it as a career, because it barely pays the bills (if at all), but writing short stories, snapshot-style prose, and novellas is one of my biggest hobbies. I'm currently in the process of planning my first full-length novel, which is taking a very long time.

More often than not, I'd rather stay home and watch cult classics or play a game of Scrabble than go out partying. I'm not big on drinking, I never do drugs, and I'm super awkward sometimes. I often blurt out things before really thinking, and when you combine that with my brutally honest outlook, I can sometimes say things in ways that make me sound really rude. I try to be kind to everyone, though, and I really value respect.

I have a funny mix of realism and idealism going on. I like to look for the best in people, but I'm also not necessarily accepting and a pushover for people who just don't have great attitudes. I won't make excuses for a person who commits immoral actions, because everyone has good and bad in them. The choices we make, not the possibilities we have, define us. I'm very outspoken, and I'll stand up against something that's immoral or otherwise wrong.

I'm very competitive, and sometimes I let my determination to be victorious get the best of me. I know this about myself, though, and it really isn't something I'm proud of. I'll never enjoy arguments, but sometimes I just can't quit while I'm ahead. It's something I hope my partner can understand and deal with by my side as I grow out of that nasty habit.

Anyway, my ability to be objective lets me step back from a conflict once the fire has cooled and really analyze why the argument happened and what can be done about it going forward. That analysis is really what can help two people grow and learn together; they learn about themselves, each other, and the unit they are as a couple.

In short, I love reading, crime shows, supernatural shows, horror movies, music, dancing, fantasy/sci-fi, comics, and comedy.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm in high school at the moment. I am going to Oberlin College in Fall 2014, where I plan to study Classics (focusing on Latin Language and Literature) and chemistry or physics/engineering.

I just graduated high school, where I completed the International Baccalaureate (IB) program.

I'm turning 19 in November.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Writing, music, academics, reading, analyzing books/movies/TV shows for deeper meanings, sleeping, RPG video games, board games, puzzles, crosswords
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm really short! I'm only 4'10". I usually wear heels that make me 5'2", but I'm tiny without my stilts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: Crime, mystery, fantasy, historical fiction, and sci-fi are my favorites. Specifically, I love The Great Gatsby, The Grapes of Wrath, 1984, To Kill a Mockingbird, The Hobbit, Lord of the Rings trilogy, Harry Potter series, Good Omens, Eragon, The Maze Runner, CHRONICLE OF A DEATH FORETOLD (if you've read Chronicle let's be best friends)

Comic Books: Uncanny X-Men (1975-1985, basically most of Chris Claremont's era), Deadpool (2008-2012), X-Men: First Class (2006-2008), All-Star Superman, X-Men (2013 - the one with the all-female team)

I'm slowly getting back into reading comics, so bear with me. I also prefer Marvel comic books over DC comic books for a bunch of reasons I don't want to get into here. (I still love the DCAU though, it's freakin' amazing.)

Movies: High Road, Shaun of the Dead, Dawn of the Dead, 21 Jump Street (remake), Hot Fuzz, X-Men, X-Men: First Class, Avengers, Thor, Iron Man, Captain America, Spider-Man (new and old), Matrix, Inception, The Lady Vanishes, GoldenEye, For Your Eyes Only, Goldfinger, Skyfall, From Russia with Love, Brave, Struck by Lightning, Pitch Perfect, Rear Window, Paint Your Wagon, Lord of the Rings series, Star Wars (the originals), To Kill a Mockingbird, Monty Python and the Holy Grail, Life of Brian, Brick, Looper, Zombieland, Zodiac, Mirrormask

Shows: Teen Wolf (IF YOU LOVE TEEN WOLF, HIT ME UP! THIS SHOW MEANS SO MUCH TO ME), Criminal Minds, NCIS, Monk, Once Upon a Time, Star Trek (the original!), Supernatural, Justice League, Justice League: Unlimited, Young Justice, Teen Titans, Doctor Who (Nine and Eleven, though Moffat can go die in a fire), Mr. Bean, House, The Inbetweeners (the original, obviously), BBC Sherlock, Community, Avatar: The Last Airbender, Korra, Eureka, Game of Thrones, The Walking Dead, Scandal

Video Games: I love all kinds of games, but my favorite genre is RPG. I also like puzzle games, strategy, and horror. My favorite games are Dragon Age (both of them), Mass Effect, Skyrim, Far Cry 3, Fallout 3 and New Vegas, Ocarina of Time, Majora's Mask, Dishonored, Fable III, Silent Hill 2, Assassin's Creed (all of them; Revelations was a dud, but I enjoyed it well enough), Final Fantasy XII, Phoenix Wright: Ace Attorney, Pokemon (Blue, Emerald, and Pearl), and Dynasty Warriors 4, 5, 6, and 7.

Here's a tip: If you're one of those people who insist that Dragon Age 2 is awful and had no good qualities, do not message me. If you didn't like Dragon Age 2, but are willing to discuss the game intelligently and appreciate what it got right, feel free to message me.
This also goes for the Mass Effect ending; I didn't think it was perfect, but I don't think it was completely terrible, and it certainly didn't make ME3 a bad game.

Music: I love many genres. Mainly, the only things I don't enjoy are screamo, blood metal, and death metal. I love classic rock (Kansas, Eagles, KISS, Led Zeppelin, Lynyrd Skynyrd, Aerosmith, Beatles, Oingo Boingo), recent rock (RHCP, The Offspring, Liz Phair, Snow Patrol), indie (Sufjan Stevens, Bon Iver, Bright Eyes, Ingrid Michaelson, Regina Spektor), instrumental (Steve Vai, Buckethead), and jazz (Stanley Jordan, Ella Fitzgerald, Frank Sinatra, Ray Charles). My guilty pleasures are pop music (Lady Gaga, Kesha, Katy Perry, Rihanna, Maroon 5), which I listen to for the great dance beats; country music (Kenny Chesney, Dixie Chicks, Brooks & Dunn), which I grew up with; and rap rock (Hollywood Undead), which just makes me want to dance around. If I had to pick, my favorite music artists would be Modest Mouse, Florence + The Machine, Jesper Kyd, Death Cab for Cutie, Snow Patrol and Blue Oyster Cult.

I ALSO LOVE KISS. A LOT.

Food: Italian! I grew up in a very multicultural household, but we often ate Italian food. Oranges are my favorite fruit, and broccoli is my favorite vegetable. I never eat mushrooms, because their texture makes me feel gross. I can eat tomato flavored things, but I hate eating real tomatoes—again, it's the texture! Another of my favorites is Chinese food, but only the mild stuff! I'm very sensitive to extreme tastes, like spiciness (I get sick if I eat hot peppers!), and the spiciest I usually go is medium-heat Buffalo wings.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. Something to keep me busy. I get restless far too easily.
2. Laptop and wifi connection; for work or play, these are essential.
3. Shoes with high heels; I like to be average height, sometimes.
4. My phone; it's as practical as it is entertaining!
5. Music; it's my emotional outlet and my inspiration.
6. My voice; I love talking and singing far too much to give it up!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Life, I guess. I like to consider philosophy. I also think about American history, superheroes, dragons, Ancient Rome, mythology, and biochemistry.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Vegging out on the couch, to be honest! Unless I have plans to hang out or go out with friends, Friday is my day to relax and recharge from the week. Even out of school, there's still a lot to do during the week, so I get stressed enough that I just want to watch movies, listen to music, read, or be with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I'm demisexual. That means sex with another person has no appeal for me unless the person in question is someone I care deeply about and trust wholeheartedly. I still do have a sex drive, as I am a human being, and I take care of my own bodily needs. However, if I'm going to have sex with another human being, it'll be after I trust and care for them, not before.

It's not exactly private. I'm very open about my sexuality.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want a smart, independent young woman who speaks her mind, loves to goof off, and is nerd enough for plenty to go around!

Also, messages that are just "hello" or "what's up" will not fly. At the very least, try to show me that you read a tiny bit of my profile.

IMPORTANT! If you didn't see this in my Favorite Video Games section...
If you're one of those people who insist that Dragon Age 2 is awful and had no good qualities at all, do not message me. If you didn't like Dragon Age 2, but are willing to discuss the game intelligently and appreciate what it got right, feel free to message me.
This also goes for the Mass Effect ending; I didn't like it either, but I don't think it was entirely terrible, and it certainly didn't make ME3 a bad game.
So basically, Bioware quitters can take a walk. To clarify: "Bioware quitters" are people who abandoned Bioware because they didn't get exactly what they wanted in a video game.