DISCLAIMER: I'm technically homeless, and have been living on my dear friends' couches, spare rooms, floors, etc. Since arriving here in September. I'm working two jobs, and I think I almost have enough money to make rent in the most distant corner of the Bronx or Queens (FTW). If you're worried about me becoming your would-be, dead beat, cereal hogging boyfriend, worry not. I get free cereal at work.
I'm in a wonderful committed open relationship with the amazingly wonderful selcouth_.
For a lot of people open relationships, and non-monogamy are nothing new, but for a lot of people they are. I'm also aware of the negative stigma around open relationships, thanks in large part to people who use them as an excuse to avoid commitment and intimacy. So if you have any questions or concerns about my open relationship, ask away. It's a subject I'm not the least bit shy about.
It's come to my attention that being a girl on this site can really suck because the second your profile goes live, you're bombarded with copied-&-pasted messages from unsavory gentleman who are sure you've been waiting all your life to be ground up on by them. I've also learned that there's a plurality of guys who can form complete sentences in the Queen's English and appear decent enough in their profile, but when you meet them in real life they have the emotional intelligence of the first category of dudes. I could launch into a lengthy rant about how I'm definitely not one of those guys, but I know the only way to prove that is through good behavior and open communication.
Dream Job: Editor-in-Chief, 'Cat Fancy' Magazine.