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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18-45
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:31pm
Straight, Sapiosexual
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
5' 10" (1.78m)
Body Type
Average build
Doesn’t have kids
English (Fluently), Tagalog (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I'm a skeptic and an optimist. I used to be the opposite, which is Catholic. And I'm polyamorous (GGG, of course). There are people in my life that I love very much. If that's not what you like, that's fine! Turn back now.

Lets see, what else...?

I have climbed mountains but I didn't take photos. So according to the internet, none of it happened.

I grew up in a tropical country then I moved to Los Angeles. So until coming to New York, I had never seen snow before in my life. On the one hand, it's like magic. On the other hand, I hate the cold.

I spent about a decade in live entertainment production. Sometimes I miss it. Actors and dancers, easiest people to work with, ever. Businessmen though, what a bunch of crazies.

Quick hits: Beer over wine, dogs over cats, croissants over bagels, Cash over Elvis, Sinatra over both those guys, and Warren G over Sinatra. Obviously.
What I’m doing with my life
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Working a strangely fulfilling office job at a quirky start up where my team will text me about going to happy 9 in the morning.

Until very recently, I was a teaching artist at a museum for kids. I'm also working on some projects.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Storytelling, helping you move, finding things (it's a weird super power), being convincing, learning, and playing Jenga.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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My favorites change all the time.

The novel High Fidelity has a special place in my heart. Rolling Stone Magazine's original review of it said, "Don't let your girlfriend read this. It contains too many of your secrets." I agree. I'm currently rereading an old favorite called Lies My Teacher Told Me. I read a lot of speculative fiction. I like non-fiction too, especially if it talks about human nature, science, or design. I have a paper subscription to New York Magazine.

I think Atonement is one of the sexiest and most beautiful movies ever made, and so is Joss Whedon's Avengers.

TV: The West Wing, Adventure Time, Firefly, Last Week Tonight, Elementary, 30 Rock, Daredevil, Sense8...

Music: Japandroids, Pomplamoose, The National, Queen, Billy Joel, Kid Cudi, Childish Gambino, Mountain Goats, The Weakerthans, Robyn, musical theater, OPM, good lyrics regardless of genre...

Food: Ribs, waffles, fresh salad, gelato...Mostly anything. Except tofu.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Polyamory or responsible nonmonogamy.
Cognitive Dissonance.
Why we should build colonies on Mars.
What I'd do if I won the lottery.
The stories I'm trying desperately to write.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Being weirder.
You should message me if
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...if you want to do things. Especially at the start! Go for a walk, play pool, visit a museum, exploratory make outs. Anything other than sitting somewhere and asking questions, job interview style. We can do that later.