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My self-summary
I'm a skeptic and an optimist. I used to be the opposite, which is Catholic.

I've climbed mountains but I don't have any good photos.

I grew up in a tropical country then I moved to Los Angeles. So until coming to New York, I had never seen snow before in my life. On the one hand, it's like magic. On the other hand, I hate being cold.

I spent about a decade in live entertainment production. Mostly theater. Sometimes I miss it. Actors and dancers, easiest people to work with, ever. Serious business and sales people though are usually crazy.

I'm polyamorous. There are people in my life that I love very much. That doesn't mean I'm only here for sex. No problems there. I'm here because I'm a glutton for people. I want to meet people, learn about different perspectives, be challenged. If that's not what you like, that's fine! If you have questions, ask them.

Sweeping generalizations: beer over wine, dogs over cats, beaches over mountains, and midnight over high noon.
What I’m doing with my life
Recently quit a strangely fulfilling office job that I loved but was slowly killing me. Currently trying to launch my own projects and freelance again, aiming to be my own boss.
I’m really good at
Storytelling, helping you move, finding things (it's a weird super power), being convincing, learning, and playing Jenga.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
It's 2016, so I included non-mainstream media and drinks because why the hell not?

High Fidelity, Good Omens, Lies My Teacher Told Me, Watchmen, the Old Man and the Sea, I Was Told There'd Be Cake, I Feel Bad About My Neck.

Octopus Pie, Cracked.com, Literotica, Craigslist (Best of Craigslist section).

Atonement, Avengers, Dogma, 2046, Blue is the Warmest Color, Almost Famous.

Cosmos: A Spacetime Odyssey, Bill Cunningham New York, Indie Game, TiG, Kink.

Rent, The Last Five Years, Once on this Island.

Firefly, Sense8, Jessica Jones, Black Mirror, The West Wing, Doctor Who, Hey Ash Watcha Playin?, Adventure Time.

Childish Gambino, the National, the Eraserheads, Tom Waits, Sara Bareilles, Bruce Springsteen, the Weakerthans, Postmodern Jukebox, Alabama Shakes.

Mystery Show Podcast, This American Life, Welcome to Night Vale.

Pizza, French Fries, Phanaeng with Duck.

Old Fashioned, Dark and Stormy, Coconut Water (from a coconut, not a can).
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Polyamory or responsible nonmonogamy.
Cognitive Dissonance.
Why we should build colonies on Mars.
What I'd do if I won the lottery.
The stories I'm trying desperately to write.
Parallel universes and "What if?" thought experiments.
On a typical Friday night I am
Being weirder.
You should message me if
...you want to do things. Especially at the start! Go for a walk, play pool, visit a museum, exploratory make outs. Anything other than sitting somewhere and asking questions, job interview style. We can do that later.

EDIT: I love that a dating website algorithm thinks I'm "less suave" than average.