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janusmccarthy

35 M San Diego, CA

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Sep 19
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
Hispanic / Latin, White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Trying to quit
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Agnosticism, and very serious about it
Sign
Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from masters program
Job
Science / Engineering
Income
$80,000–$100,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Speaks
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Latin (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
My name is Craig, and you are?
I have a wonderful penchant for cooking, you should never trust a skinny chef. What are you good at?
I was born in San Francisco, but have lived all up and down the coast, my last city was Los Angeles. Where do you hail from?
Tell me something interesting about you.

I'm not looking for a pen pal. I'm definitely interested in something long term, but I'm also definitely looking for someone to go out with, not come home to right now.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm getting ready for the summer convention series. I've returned back home to San Diego after about a dozen years abroad, and glad to be back home.

I feel like I can have a little fun without worrying about "the future" too much. I'm able to do a little bit of traveling (while other countries are great, there's still a lot of this country I want to see. Virginia in a month! I want some more time in the mid west though. I thought Kansas City was great, wasn't that big on St. Louis though. Definitely want to see Michigan and the ruins of Detroit, the first modern ruins.

So I'm getting myself out there. I'm thinking about getting my doctorate, I love hiking, riding my bike, I'm slowly starting to get ready for burning man. I'm having fun meeting people and making new friends.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Enjoying the simple things in life, staying positive. Live, laugh, love.

I have fantastic date ideas when it's someone I like and I'm getting good feedback and know the person. I'm the guy whose date ideas get copied.

I love to do karaoke, sometimes bad, sometimes good, ALWAYS entertaining. I love going on tasting tours for awesome craft beers. I hike and ride my bike. I have two left feet, but I get out there anyway. I manage to be the stable rock people build friendships on, and the guy who always has a good time. We find joy where we give up our expectations and live in the moment at the expense of no other person.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Sometimes I don't smile, I'm not in a bad mood, I'm just thinking, or tuning out the world, and I look WAY more intense and intimidating that I actually am until I say or do something. This is the guy version of "resting bitch face".

I'm a very positive person, however, so if I'm not looking intense, it's probably the beard.

People who see me with kids often have the best opinions of me.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: Card, Powers, Gaimon, Adams, Martin occasionally Sedaris and Barry

Food: I'm rather exploratory when it comes to my pallet, and I'm kind of a foodie, though when I'm cooking I tend to run spicy or rich foods with a lot of vegetables. I NEED a restaurant buddy, so even if you don't feel a love connection, if you think you can keep your end of the conversation, let me know!
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Amazing friends - I've chosen for loyalty, and I have it in spades.

Duct Tape - Because Duct Tape will fix everything.

A good multi-tool.

I'm part engineer...if I have those things, I can probably build the rest.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can make something better, whether it be experiences, or stuff I build, or friendships. The only people you should try to get even with are people who have treated you well.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most Fridays I'm at home, it's the end of my week and I usually go out during the week, often way too late, so I'm often burned out by the end of the week, and just want to order takeout and watch a movie.

If I get notified early enough in the week, however, I'm more than willing to be there for a good time.

Still, I'd rather rest, or hang out with friends and get out there all day Saturday.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
A lot of my photos are taken with other people because I hate taking pictures by myself.

There are three qualities in women that draw me to women: intelligence, confidence, and the ability to not take oneself too seriously. These things are far more important than looks.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
the day ends in 'y'. I'd just rather you say hi than creepily hang out and look at my profile. If I messaged you, I especially want to hear from you, even if it's just to say, 'No thanks.' I think the world would be a better place if we worked to create opportunities to treat people like people.

I'm looking for someone that is still looking for adventure. Someone that has their life together and is looking to share that joy and have the joy I've found shared with them. Someone that can take an offered arm and just find be enjoyable. Someone who gives everything they do everything they have, regardless of how it might make them look, and someone that wants to leave the world a better place. If that's you, send me a hello.

If you can tell me something you liked about my profile.