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36 • San Diego, CA • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 24–38
- Near me
- Who are single
- For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
- Last online
- Apr 25
- Hispanic / Latin, White
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Trying to quit
- Agnosticism, and very serious about it
- Capricorn, but it doesn’t matter
- Graduated from masters program
- Science / Engineering
- Mostly monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
- English (Fluently), French (Okay), Latin (Poorly)
I have a wonderful penchant for cooking, you should never trust a skinny chef. What are you good at?
I was born in San Francisco, but have lived all up and down the coast, my last city was Los Angeles. Where do you hail from?
Tell me something interesting about you.
I'm not looking for a pen pal. I'm definitely interested in something long term, but I'm also definitely looking for someone to go out with, not come home to right now.
I feel like I can have a little fun without worrying about "the future" too much. I'm able to do a little bit of traveling (while other countries are great, there's still a lot of this country I want to see. This year I've been to Nevada (Burning Man), Norfolk, Oahu and Kauai (Hawaii). I want some more time in the mid west though. I thought Kansas City was great, wasn't that big on St. Louis though. I didn't spend enough time in Detroit, just enough to be curious about exploring the urban blight of a ruined city.
I'm getting myself out there. I love hiking, riding my bike, Burning Man was fantastic this year. I'm having fun meeting people and making new friends.
I have fantastic date ideas when it's someone I like and I'm getting good feedback and know the person. I'm the guy whose date ideas get copied.
I love to do karaoke, sometimes bad, sometimes good, ALWAYS entertaining. I love going on tasting tours for awesome craft beers. I hike and ride my bike. I have two left feet, but I would love to find someone to take dance lessons with.
I manage to be the stable rock people build friendships on, and the guy who always has a good time. We find joy when we give up our expectations and live in the moment at the expense of no other person.
I'm a very positive person, however, so if I'm not looking intense, it's probably the beard.
I'm enjoy hanging out with kids, and those that see me spending time with them often have the best opinions of me.
Food: I'm rather exploratory when it comes to my pallet, and I'm kind of a foodie, though when I'm cooking I tend to run spicy or rich foods with a lot of vegetables. I NEED a restaurant buddy, so even if you don't feel a love connection, if you think you can keep your end of the conversation, let me know!
Duct Tape - Because Duct Tape will fix everything.
A good multi-tool.
A lighter - FIRE GOOD!
A computer or other information device.
I'm part engineer...if I have those things, I can probably build the rest.
If I get notified early enough in the week, however, I'm more than willing to be there for a good time.
Still, I'd rather sleep in and get out there all day Saturday.
There are three qualities in women that draw me to women: intelligence, confidence, and the ability to not take oneself too seriously. These things are far more important than looks.
I'm looking for someone that is still looking for adventure. Someone that has their life together and is looking to share that joy and have the joy I've found shared with them. Someone that can take an offered arm and just find be enjoyable. Someone who gives everything they do everything they have, especially if they look silly doing it, and someone that wants to leave the world a better place. If that's you, send me a hello.
If you can tell me something you liked about my profile.
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