My profile is LONG however...if you truly want a meaningful connect and want a clue who is behind the face...then please read it. If you don't have the time...in truth you don' t have time for me. I want a relationship based on substance!
I have been incredibly blessed in life, great kids, a beautiful grandchildren. I have been deeply loved, shared my life with the most wonderful man...he has since passed away...but his gifts to me were immeasurable and I am a more joyous person from the experience. The more you love the more you are able to love...how lucky am I!
Life is about sharing with those you love, it is empty if there is no one to give to. I see challenges as opportunities to grow and know yourself better. I try to live a life of accountability.
I am a passionate person, very loving, with a lively sense of humour and a bit of a brat, and quite independent! I love to learn and grow, I am very curious. I live a life of accountability...there is no room for blame, it blocks growth.
Like all of us there's lots more but that is the fun of spending time together and discovering. I would hope for an encounter with someone who is not bitter about the past and wants to live in the present moment building foundations towards a good friendship and hopefully more. I also believe, heart and soul, that in the building of a relationship it needs to start slowly, obviously there has to be chemistry, things in common, values in common, but a gentle, respectful beginning, built on the desire to be friends first, allowing us both time to decide if there is a future. Aggressive, angry, insecure men have absolutely no appeal to me! At this stage of the game peace reigns, which does not mean dullness!
I live by the following: Wishing to come from soul not ego
ALIGNING WITH OUR SOULS
How can I tell the difference between my ego and my soul?
Your ego always knows,
And your soul doesn’t need to know.
Your ego lives in fear,
And your soul lives in trust.
Your ego resists when things aren’t going its way,
And your soul surrenders, trusting that the river of life is taking you exactly where you need to go.
Your ego dwells in the past,
And your soul lives in the present, with the profound knowledge that this moment is all there is.
Your ego will do anything to be right,
And your soul knows that it will gain strength, knowledge, and wisdom from all the times it is wrong.
Your ego is serious,
And your soul is light and joyful.
Your ego blames,
And your soul takes complete responsibility for co-creating every circumstance.
Your ego stands in judgment,
And your soul comforts you with compassion.