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32 Santa Rosa, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Jan 10
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Atheism, and very serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Working on space camp
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Thai (Poorly)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I'm a programmer and a teacher by trade but at heart I'm a scientist. I love discovering everything I can about this amazing universe we live in.

When I'm not pressing keys on my laptop I enjoy oh so many things. Some of which are: gardening, hiking, going on day long bike rides, camping, reading the latest science has to offer, swing dancing, play wrestling, or doing anything that makes us laugh.

I just moved back to Santa Rosa in mid-July. I spent the last 7ish years living in San Francisco. One of those years was spent in South East Asia, and another in New Zealand.

I'm mostly looking for new friends near Santa Rosa but I'm open to romance if shows up naturally. Message me if you have any fun adventure ideas! :D
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Trying to make myself and the people around me feel as happy, accepted and loved as I can.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making people laugh. Sarcasm. Questionable banter. Bad puns.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
either my eyes or the silly look on my face
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
For a long time all I ever read was non-fiction books. Books like:
A Universe From Nothing by Lawrence Krauss
Letter to a Christian Nation by Sam Harris
The Age of Spiritual Machines by Ray Kurzweil
God is Not Great by Christopher Hitchens

But then I fell in love with
The Martian by Andy Weir
Snow Crash by Neal Stephenson
The Metamorphosis of Prime Intellect by Roger Williams
Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff, Christ's Childhood Pal
by Christopher Moore

There is so much amazing media on YouTube. I love watching free documentaries, debates, funny skits, standup. Here are a few of my favorites:

Skeptics Guide to the Universe, This American Life, Penn's Sunday School, Best of the Left, Start Talk, Wait Wait Don't Tell Me, The Nerdist, Freakanomics Radio, RadioLab

Chromeo!!, Metronomy, Electric Six, Hot Chip, Justice, Radiohead, Tencious D.
If you want to get serious about it:

Brick, Agora, Dr. Strangelove, Safety Not Guaranteed

TV Shows
Curb Your Enthusiasm, Breaking Bad (best show on television), The Daily Show, Game of Thrones, House, The Venture Bros., Futurama, Southpark, Planet Earth, Star Trek, Big Bang Theory

I love food. I don't understand anyone who doesn't. I try and eat paleo as much as possible but I'll take any excuse to go to Delfina Pizza, Tacolicious, Millennium or try a hot new restaurant.

- Sam Harris
- Christopher Hitchens
- Steven Novella
- Hypatia
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- bike
- the internet
- excercise
- goals
- science!
- passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How to make everyone around me giggle :)
- How to build sustainable communities.
- How to use the internet to make the lives of everyone on earth just a little bit better.
- How to the hell we are going to survive the coming climate change induced disasters.
- Foxes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Dancing. Playing games with friends. Learning something new.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm an over-sharer. A proud member of team TMI.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You live near Santa Rosa and want to make new friends.
You're an honest and open person.
You enjoy deep conversation while hiking in the sun.
You're open to dating someone who is in an open & polyamorous relationship.

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