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jaredatron

32 Oakland, CA Man

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I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 24–38
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 1:53pm
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Sometimes
Religion
Atheism, and very serious about it
Sign
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Education
Working on space camp
Job
Technology
Status
Single
Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Thai (Poorly)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I grew up in southern California but I’ve lived in the bay area for all of my adult life.

I’m polyamorous. No, I am not just looking to sleep with tons of people. I’ve been in 4 long term successful open relationships over the past decade. Open, honest, and non-jealous relationships are a must for me. I believe we are all capable of loving more than one person at the same time. I work towards and actively practice compersion with my partners.

At the core I'm looking for close connections. Be it close long term friendships or romantic partnerships.

I'd like more friends to go on adventures with. Backpacking trips, kayaking, long bike rides, takinging a class together, traveling to a new country, or just trying something new in the kitchen.

I love to travel. So far I've been to Japan, New Zealand, Spain, Fiji, Thailand, Vietnam, Singapore, Cambodia, and Laos.

I'm sex-positive, body-positive, an LGBTQ ally, kinky, and a feminist.

I don't drink but I do do psychedelic drugs occasionally.

Lately I've been really into cooking delicious vegan things! I’m trying to cook most of my meals which for me is a big change.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Right now I teach programming for a vocational school in SF. While I LOVE teaching I’ll probably start another company in the next year or so.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Emotions, sarcasm, dad jokes, giving massages, listening, sex.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
my long eyelashes
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books
The Metamorphosis of Prime Intellect
The Martian - Andy Weir
A Universe From Nothing - Lawrence Krauss

I also love watching documentaries and debates.

Podcasts
Skeptics Guide to the Universe
This American Life
Penn's Sunday School
Best of the Left

Music
Midlake
Chromeo
Metronomy
Electric Six
Hot Chip
Elliot Smith
Pink Floyd
Arcade Fire
Blackmill
Cat Power
com Truise
Die Antwood
Mates of State
Mystery Jets

Movies
Agora
Dr. Strangelove
Safety Not Guaranteed
Brick
The Boys and Girls Guide to Getting Down

TV Shows
Curb Your Enthusiasm
The Daily Show
House
South Park
Bob’s Burgers
The Rachel Maddow Show

Food
Thai
Mexican
Vietnamese
Sushi

People
- Sam Harris
- Christopher Hitchens
- Steven Novella
- Hypatia
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- my friends
- my bike
- the internet
- science!
- my passport
- coffee
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
- How to make everyone around me giggle :)
- How to build sustainable communities.
- How to use the internet to make the lives of everyone on earth just a little bit better.
- How to the hell we are going to survive the coming climate change induced disasters.
- Foxes
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either out dancing or in SanFransocializing with my friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I don't wear underwear :P
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're emotionally intelligent
You enjoy passionate conversation
You know how to make amazing vegan food :P
You like to go on several day long backpacking trips
You're not afraid to hitch hike
You like to plan secret adventures
You'd like to go on a secret adventure!

You want to go do this with me: http://www.sonomacanopytours.com/