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30 Indianapolis, IN Man


I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 19–36
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends

My details

Last online
Apr 10
Body type
Graduated from university
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I just moved here from Florida. The Triangle looks like an endless, dazzling landscape of food and mountains. So far I'm very impressed.

I prefer the outdoors, and am lucky enough to have a job that allows me to be outside while I make no money. Ideally I'd like to do food justice work--essentially making it easier for people to access healthy, fresh food.

I skew more towards being an extrovert than introvert. Sometimes I don't know what to do with people who are particularly quiet, and I wonder if they feel the same way about me.

The impetus other women feel to have a child has, I think, channeled itself in me in the desire for a dog.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My mother used to ask me that too, but then she and her cat became very close, and now all I hear about is what the cat is doing, saying, eating, and killing.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Talking to strangers
Enjoying board games and ultimate frisbee while being comically bad at them

The list of things I'm decidedly passable at would be a little longer, and includes:
Remembering faces
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Too vague. Narrow down.

Books: Mostly nonfiction

Movies: Documentaries or silly things like cartoons and comedies

Shows: I'm not much a TV person. This year, however, over the course of three months, some friends and I watched Twin Peaks from beginning to end, and I loved it.

Music: I'll only embarrass myself.

Food: I like a hearty meal. I'm a vegetarian. I don't care if you are or not, but I do fall into the stereotype of loving vegetables, and all food, really. For the most part, I eat healthy--working at a natural foods co-op for three years rubbed off on me.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
A sense of community
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Whether I should go to grad school
How I'd love to go on a bike tour someday
My conflicting feelings about monogamy
Gender roles
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Growing out my fingernails competitively.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're silly, intelligent, sincere, progressive, imbued with a sense of empathy, and want to show me around
You think you can teach me an interesting skill
You know where to go swimming around here
You want to build a box fort