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jarrek04

30 / M / gay / Married

Kansas City, Missouri

The Skinny

Last Online
Join Date
Ethnicity
White
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Rather not say
Looking For
New friends, Long-distance penpals
Smokes
No
Drinks
Sometimes
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Computer / Hardware / Software
Income
Kids
Pets
Likes dogs
Languages
English (Fluently)

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Your Notes

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I am reserved, analytical, and ironic.

My Self-Summary

I just got married! Woo Hoo! My spouse and I went to Connecticut and got all the paperwork completed there. Very cool!

I tend to be reserved with people I don't know, though not necessarily shy. As a software engineer, I am something of a nerd, but I try to not act like it too often :-)

I like Italian pop music, though I don't really speak Italian at all. I just memorize the words (in Italian - I have no idea what they mean in English).

I also like coffee. I pick up a half-pound at a local roastery every week and grind it just prior to leaving for work each morning.

As a gay Christian, I tend to be somewhat knowledgeable about theology. I have come to realize that I can be both gay and Christian without those two being in conflict with each other. Sites like gayChristian.net and http://www.jeramyt.org/ have helped me come to terms with myself. I'm basically a 4-point calvinist.

I value the good friends that I have in my life. I enjoy having people that I can be honest with and trust. I used to not have that for a long time, so I value it now. I like my fun-loving friends who don't care if I'm fun loving or not. Sometimes I have times when I'm feeling kinda quiet its nice feel like its ok if I don't really say much.

My Keirsey personality profile : INTJ or INTP.

What I’m doing with my life

I've been a software engineer for 6 years now.

I’m really good at

Thinking logically, organizing systems into logical and orthogonal components. I am pretty good at giving back massages. I can sometimes be good at listening.

The first things people usually notice about me

My awesome body and general all-around hotness... and my humility, of course. I exude humility more than most people do.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

I have weird tastes in music. I like much of the modern pop music, some house music, current Italian pop, Arabic and Turkish traditional music, depressing music (like coldplay and duncan sheik)... etc.

On a typical Friday night I am

Out with friends, sometimes at a party, sometimes at a club. Once in a while I will just have a quite evening to myself though too.

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

I stole a banana when I was 4, but my mom made me take it back.

You should message me if

You should message me if I want you to.