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jas1972

41 / M / Straight / Single

Singapore, Singapore

His Details

Last Online
Today – 11:42am
Ethnicity
Asian
Height
5′ 7″ (1.69m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Christianity and very serious about it
Sign
Taurus but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Pets
Has dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Chinese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Hi! I'll try to keep this short since I've never been any good at describing myself. Besides, I think it's much better to spend time together in order to know someone rather than just merely hearing about that someone from him/her.

I'm basically here to meet new people, make new friends and find new people to hang out with. Pretty easy-going in general and simply love humour. I like having fun, laughing at myself, keeping a cheerful outlook and taking positives out of every situation. I'm adventurous and also easy-going. I like most sports and I'm not afraid to try everything at least once.

I'm into many genres of movies and music. Also like to dance and sing. Cooking is something that I like to experiment with and no, I don't detest the cleaning up afterwards.

I spend a lot of time thinking, but I can get distracted quite easily.

The tests are fun, but some of them are plain silly, while some of the answers don't really seem to be me...lol....

"Charisma can get you to the top but only character can keep you at the top....It is the roots that determine the shoots. It is the roots that determine the fruits.....Personality speaks about the styles we display, but character is the substance within. In the long run, substance will always outlast style." - Apelles Poh.

"Your worst day with God will be better than your best day without Him." - Joyce Meyer.

Apparently I haven't managed to keep this short....lol!
What I’m doing with my life
Living it, what else?...lol...
I’m really good at
....working with my hands. The proverbial handyman, or Mr Fix-It, I do most home repairs myself. And I enjoy it.
The first things people usually notice about me
I'm quiet, and some say, look unfriendly and unapproachable. 'Cos I seldom smile and I don't carry a smiling face.

But in actual fact, I'm a very friendly and helpful person. And I can end up talking a lot if I click with the company. One just needs to know what makes me tick....lol.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'm really into 70s and 80s music. Simply love the Bee Gees, ABBA, the Mambo-Jumbo music Zouk plays on their Mambo Jumbo nites (not that I go there, just that I know what they play). Also dig movies based on real-life stories (eg. Men of Honor, Seabiscuit, Coach Carter) or war-time history (eg. We Were Soldiers, Schindler's List).

Oh and a whole lot more that I've not listed here. I've also stopped remembering the names of authors, singers, song titles etc that I enjoy simply because there're too many of them and I believe that our brain has a finite capacity for remembering stuff and I'd rather not use up too much "memory space" on such entertainment info.....LOL....
The six things I could never do without
1) God's love for me
2) God's plan for my life
3) God's guidance in my days
4) God's grace towards me
5) God's.....

I think you get my drift. Without Him, nothing I may have matters. But with God, I don't really need anything else, but He gives them to me out of a Father's love for His children. That, incidentally, is a great model for me to strive for if I become a dad.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
.....what this world would have been if mankind hadn't "invented" so many things.......or formulated so many management ideas, economic models such as capitalism.......or if corporate greed doesn't exist.....or if everyone was half as compassionate as Mother Teresa, half as peaceful as Gandhi.....

.....also about how best to achieve the goals I want to reach in life.....

....and about a lot of other trivial stuff......as well as more serious stuff......I think you get the idea. I think a lot....LOL....
On a typical Friday night I am
Out chilling with friends till late. But we don't club. Just chill, relax and talk about anything and everything. :)
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm really a horny, little rabbit......ROFL....would anyone really believe it? ;)

Alright, I'm quite adept at wearing a mask, or putting up a front, some may say. I can be experiencing a perfect storm in my life, but nobody would be able to guess it just by observing me. Not until I tell them.

And I'm actually quite in touch with my emotions. In this respect, I don't wear a mask and maintain a stoic, emotionless face when something or someone touches my heart. Real men do tear, when we are sufficiently moved. Whether by compassion, gratitude, or love.

And I really mean it about the rabbit.....LOL.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 18–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, activity partners
You should message me if
you feel....

.....we can become friends......or you want somebody to talk to......or you want someone to hang out with....or you just feel there's something there but you can't quite put a finger on it....

There's never any harm done in making another friend and who knows what can happen. Right?