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jasaniava

32 / M / Gay / Single

Tucson, Arizona

His Details

Last Online
May 17
Ethnicity
Native American, White, Other
Height
6′ 2″ (1.88m).
Body Type
Average
Diet
Mostly anything
Smokes
Yes
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Other and somewhat serious about it
Sign
Sagittarius and it’s fun to think about
Education
Dropped out of college/university
Job
Artistic / Musical / Writer
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and likes cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Okay)

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My self-summary
Let's see, how to begin...

I'm Mychyl, a 31yo gay male into geeky things like online gaming (City of Heroes/City of Villains ). (I used to be on World of Warcraft, but it got utterly boring. I also formerly played Final Fantasy XI, but endgame there made me cry. Aion is also now on the formerly-played list, too high an emphasis on PvP. Also, add MapleStory to the former list, because grinding for the sake of grinding is boring.)

I live in Tucson, possibly the hottest place I've ever lived, except for St Louis since it's so humid. Which I hate. (I grew up, for those keeping score, in Norcal. In what was once one of the most homophobic towns I've ever known. And which, according to the exit polls from the 2008 elections, vastly improved. Go U-Town. o.o)

Anywho, when I'm NOT glued to my computer blogging or making icons or any other nonsense (which is less often lately than some think), I'm either at work or glued to one of my games. (I'm a gamer. Keep that in mind.)

Let's see, what else... oh! People I hate! I detest, in the strongest way possible, people who match one or more of the following criteria: overzealous people of any religion (especially Christianity), bigots (whether against race, gender or sexuality), and fake/shallow people. If you are one of these, don't talk to me. I don't wanna talk to you.

I do however absolutely love people with strong opinions and real reasons for them, especially if you're passionate about it. (As long as they have nothing to do with religion and/or bigotry. See also above.) I love picking people's brains and seeing what they think, and more importantly, WHY. Sometimes you never know yourself until you can discover reality through someone else's eyes.

I am feline, fun-loving, and sarcastic
What I’m doing with my life
I'm working full-time (call center... woo?) and biding my time until fame (or infamy, depending) finds me.

I'm also working on writing my next book, which is slated for publication whenever I actually FINISH editing it -- which, at the rate I'm going, is gonna be around the end of the year.
I’m really good at
...knowing the answer to things that most people would never stop and think about. Really, extremely random things. (The common things that everyone seems to know, however, I'm lucky to get a passing grade on. >.>)
The first things people usually notice about me
My eyes for some weird reason, then my voice, and finally the fact that I talk very fast and tend to trip over my words if given a chance.

Also, the fact that I'm very affectionate with friends and loves alike, though my displays of affection might vary depending on the person. (Anything from cheek-kisses and hugs to pokes and wrestling around.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: Anything by Mercedes Lackey, the Belgariad and Mallorean by David Eddings, and of course the Harry Potter series.

Movies: FAR too many to name.

Music: If it's got catchy lyrics and the music isn't half bad, I'll like it. Pop, rock, r&b... just no gospel. :P

Foods: Cheese is the 5th food group. Chocolate got bumped down.
The six things I could never do without
~love ~the internet ~caffeine ~cheese ~gaming ~sex
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Guys, to be honest, take up most of my thoughts, and especially my daydreams. It's a rare moment when I go 5 minutes without thinking about one guy or another I have a crush on.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My biggest personality flaw is that I see the good in all people while being cynical about mankind as a whole. I've been beaten down (metaphorically and literally) so many times that it's impossible for me to see the good in all humanity anymore, but at the same time, each person, when alone, has the capacity for so much purity and good... it's astonishing.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like guys
  • Ages 18–40
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
If I haven't scared you off yet or said anything that directly bars you from talking to me (ie. you're a bigot, shallow, or contacting me so you can save my soul and get a toaster), we could be friends at least. I'll never turn away a friend, unless they turn on me first or stop having any use for me as a friend.