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It seems like most of the guys who look at my profile do not have a photo posted. Makes me long for the days of OKC when the stalkers were called stalkers (instead of "visitors"). Lol, sort of. Guys, put a picture up. If the 55 year old bikers can manage, so can you.

It seems like most of the guys who look at my profile do nothave a photo posted. Makes me long for the days of OKC when thestalkers were called stalkers (instead of "visitors"). Lol, sortof. Guys, put a picture up. If the 55 year old bikers can manage,so can you.

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I have been wondering lately why all of my friends are either athiest or agnostic. It was suggested by one of these friends that perhaps it was because I was one of the few open-minded protestant Christians.

After deliberating on this, I decided that while my friend may have had a point, it is more likely that I have chosen more open-minded friends who are willing to accept ME.

At any rate, is good to have people on both sides of the fence. Wish they would all just get along though.

I have been wondering lately why all of my friends are eitherathiest or agnostic. It was suggested by one of these friends thatperhaps it was because I was one of the few open-minded protestantChristians.

After deliberating on this, I decided that while my friend mayhave had a point, it is more likely that I have chosen moreopen-minded friends who are willing to accept ME.

At any rate, is good to have people on both sides of the fence.Wish they would all just get along though.

How to bathe a cat.

Make sure it is a very small cat. That's the best I've got. The big ones can tear the hell out of you.

Make sure it is a very small cat. That's the best I've got. Thebig ones can tear the hell out of you.

How to bathe a cat.

Who Am I?

I decided night before last that the best way out of present two dead-end job conundrum is to find new and better job. As I am updating my resume I realize my print shop job is such a mess that I don't even have a job title. I run the Riso, do some bindery, some typesetting, some customer service, clear the jams from the xerox machines... . However, there does not seem to be an apt descriptive for said list of responsibilities. I don't think "print shop bitch" is appropriate resume language, but is at present all I have. What to do?

I decided night before last that the best way out of present twodead-end job conundrum is to find new and better job. As I amupdating my resume I realize my print shop job is such a mess thatI don't even have a job title. I run the Riso, do some bindery,some typesetting, some customer service, clear the jams from thexerox machines... . However, there does not seem to be an aptdescriptive for said list of responsibilities. I don't think "printshop bitch" is appropriate resume language, but is at present all Ihave. What to do?

Who Am I?

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At present moment I am listening to my recent iTunes purchases. Am still a bit skeptical about purchasing music that you can't hold in your hands (i like CDs, record albums, and even the horrendously inconvenient cassette formats). However, I do like the pick and choose method. I have some new Jason Mraz, Katy Perry, Gavin Rossdale (mm hmm) and Bat for Lashes, all for under the cost of ONE new CD.

Still, am anxiously awaiting recently purchased Imogen Heap album, and book from Amazon (I ordered The Alchemist). Not caving yet on the Kindle thing. How can you get that great book smell from something that looks like a GameBoy? You can't. Sometimes change is just bad.

At present moment I am listening to my recent iTunes purchases.Am still a bit skeptical about purchasing music that you can't holdin your hands (i like CDs, record albums, and even the horrendouslyinconvenient cassette formats). However, I do like the pick andchoose method. I have some new Jason Mraz, Katy Perry, GavinRossdale (mm hmm) and Bat for Lashes, all for under the cost of ONEnew CD.

Still, am anxiously awaiting recently purchased Imogen Heapalbum, and book from Amazon (I ordered The Alchemist). Not cavingyet on the Kindle thing. How can you get that great book smell fromsomething that looks like a GameBoy? You can't. Sometimes change isjust bad.

Hmmmm

After a fairly serious three-day (and counting) headache, and an even more serious two-day emotional funk, I have all of a sudden made about a hundred life-altering decisions in the space of about an hour. Can't wait to wake up tomorrow and see if any of them stick.

After a fairly serious three-day (and counting) headache, and aneven more serious two-day emotional funk, I have all of a suddenmade about a hundred life-altering decisions in the space of aboutan hour. Can't wait to wake up tomorrow and see if any of themstick.

Hmmmm

Penis Photos NOT Wanted

Will someone please NEUTER WhiteRabbit? Am really tired of his penis picture appearing in my stalker list.
White Rabbit, if you are reading, I am not interested. Go stalk someone else.
Will someone please NEUTER WhiteRabbit? Am really tired of hispenis picture appearing in my stalker list.
White Rabbit, if you are reading, I am not interested. Go stalksomeone else.
Penis Photos NOT Wanted

Experiment has failed.

Or maybe I got it all wrong. Anyway, only two responses to the "monkey-butt" post. Thanks for playing guys, and for helping me to see the obvious. Is a sticky wicket to withdraw from extended family without hurting any feelings. Guess it's going to have to be done, though.
And Lasseter isn't even here to be told he was wrong.
Or maybe I got it all wrong. Anyway, only two responses to the"monkey-butt" post. Thanks for playing guys, and for helping me tosee the obvious. Is a sticky wicket to withdraw from extendedfamily without hurting any feelings. Guess it's going to have to bedone, though.
And Lasseter isn't even here to be told he was wrong.
Experiment has failed.

Lasseter, where are you?

Your profile is gone! Are you still skulking around OKC under a different name? Don't leave us hanging. We need your brand sweetly snarky commentary. Come back! Lasseter, we hardly knew ye.
Your profile is gone! Are you still skulking around OKC under adifferent name? Don't leave us hanging. We need your brand sweetlysnarky commentary. Come back! Lasseter, we hardly knew ye.
Lasseter, where are you?

Blue monkey butts are really attractive.

The above title is not at all true. Lasseter has assured me that a title such as the one above will garner more readership and responses to my journal postings. As today I find myself seeking the advice of total strangers, I thought it appropo to test his theory here.
I have two dead-end jobs, one which I truly enjoy, in the industry that my college degree is in, and which I find helpful in attaining my end goal of working as a freelance graphic designer. The other is for my in-laws. Need I say more?
I also find myself in the fairly (or unfairly, depending on how you look at it) stressful position of managing household and all that is contained therein (and most of what is growing without in a most unruly fashion) while working and trying to kick start a new business (see end goal above).
For the uninitiated, that means housework, yardwork, doctor, dental and vet appts, money managing (aka scrounging), little league shuffling, birthday party planning, vehicle researching, realtor finding, etc., etc., etc.
Point is, something has got to GO. Any ideas?
The above title is not at all true. Lasseter has assured me that atitle such as the one above will garner more readership andresponses to my journal postings. As today I find myself seekingthe advice of total strangers, I thought it appropo to test histheory here.
I have two dead-end jobs, one which I truly enjoy, in the industrythat my college degree is in, and which I find helpful in attainingmy end goal of working as a freelance graphic designer. The otheris for my in-laws. Need I say more?
I also find myself in the fairly (or unfairly, depending on how youlook at it) stressful position of managing household and all thatis contained therein (and most of what is growing without in a mostunruly fashion) while working and trying to kick start a newbusiness (see end goal above).
For the uninitiated, that means housework, yardwork, doctor, dentaland vet appts, money managing (aka scrounging), little leagueshuffling, birthday party planning, vehicle researching, realtorfinding, etc., etc., etc.
Point is, something has got to GO. Any ideas?
Blue monkey butts are really attractive.