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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26-36
  • Near me
  • For new friends, short-term dating, casual sex

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6' 5" (1.96m)
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Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Somewhat), French
My self-summary
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Berkeley politics, Brooklyn style, and New Orleans manners; tall, dark, and over-educated. By the way, have you heard the one about the vampire and the mime who walked in to a bar?

I run my own publishing/tech startup. People actually read what I write? That's so weird. There world is an amazing place when you get to wake up and do something you love every day.

I just moved back to Brooklyn. It's good to be home.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Writing alternate endings.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Listening to what people are saying, even if they don't hear it themselves. Telling stories. Breaking down arguments and positions into their constitutive bits. Getting into trouble. Proving a catalyst.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm 6'5". That's taller than you'd think.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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(a) 1984, Antigone, Blood Meridian, Diary of a Wombat, Discipline and Punish, the Hamlet, the Illuminations, Jude the Obscure, Kim, Leviathan, the Little Prince, Lolita, the Odyssey, Remembrance of Things Past.

(b) 12 Monkeys, the 39 Steps, After Life, American History X, Big, the Devil's Backbone, High Art, Hudson Hawk, Mystery Men, Permanent Midnight, Requiem for a Dream, the Pillow Book, the Silence, Swimming with Sharks, Tokyo Story, Waking the Dead, Zoolander.

(c) Atmosphere, Leroy Carr, the Black Keys, the Dead Weather, FischerSpooner, Metric, the Notwist, Washington Phillips, the Postal Service, Thievery Corporation, Underworld, the Yeah Yeah Yeahs.

(d) Avocado, cheese (particularly the stinky ones), Chubby Hubby, collard greens, Ethiopian, oysters, tacos al pastor, tequila, udon.

(e) Community, Justified, Night Court, Six Feet Under, the Wire.

The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
This question displeases me.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Dancing the night away (swing, tango). Market penetration. Author recruitment. Civil liberties.

Also: how it is that I've been on this site since a month after it opened (in 2004!), but ended up meeting the girl of my dreams through a friend.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Avoiding the slush pile.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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When I still was young and innocent, I accidentally spent the night in a brothel in Tangiers. I didn't understand why one girl kept talking to me and asking to come up to my room. Not until the next morning--when I noticed all the same girls from the night before still standing around the entrance--did I realize what was going on.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.'re interested in meeting me and my artistic, acrobatic, and queer girlfriend. Who's finally made a profile for herself: electric_sprite.