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jasp3r

45 / M / Straight / Single

Oakland, California

His Details

Last Online
Today – 7:14am
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 8″ (1.73m).
Body Type
Fit
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Never
Religion
Other
Sign
Cancer and it’s fun to think about
Education
College/university
Job
Other
Income
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently), Spanish (Poorly)

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My self-summary
I am an Oakland native, and work in the trades. I like food, cooking, movies, books, public radio ( to the best of our knowledge , studio 360, says you,Radiolab, TAL), comedy, words,language (though I'm not great at scrabble, hhmmm),science (I could spend hours at the Exploratorium and the aquarium) learn me sumfin new, art & music of many kinds, outdoor activities, the occasional flea market or auction.
Oh,...I'm a hat whore, fedoras really, but I might not turn down a nice bowler.
I can be smart and sometimes witty though I have trouble coming up with pithy comments describing myself at times like this. I also tend towards goofy/ silly when I get comfortable around people I like.
I think I still have something of a punkrock sensibility. I get asked if I am a musician or artist enough that it no longer surprises me. I also get the occasional "Are you from the east coast?"... um, no.
I'm looking for someone I can talk to, communicate with, laugh with, trust, respect, kiss, snuggle,.... oh yeah. Profiles and compatibility scores are all well and good but it all comes down to chemistry.
What I’m doing with my life
I work with my hands and my mind, problem solving, communicating, repairing, building. The rest, well I'm enjoying it and trying to get better at it.
I’m really good at
cooking (berry pies), well other stuff too (cassoulet, risotto, bouillabaisse, Thai and working on Indian), listening, noticing, communicating. I can fix stuff cuz I'm mechanically inclined, I found out I'm pretty good at Taboo and Balderdash. Jaywalking. I can do a Cockney accent pretty well.
The first things people usually notice about me
Um, my eyes ? That I'm open and trustworthy ( my brother's words).
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Oh boy this is such a big category I'll have to come back to it after thinking some more. I like movies a lot and I read quite a bit too. Fiction mostly some travel though I am interested in other genres
Books. Dr. Seuss,old sci fi,H.Potter,cook books, Life of Pi, Foucault's Pendulum; recently, A Movable Feast, Theroux, and a local detective novel series. Currently reading The Hunchback of Notre Dame.
-Just saw Arcade Fire. But I go from big band swing, bebop & cool, Bix and Django to Tom Waits,Clash, Pixies, Gogol, The Harder They Come soundtrack, Devo, XTC, Joy Division, Sinatra, Motown, funk. KALW has an awesome Africa mix Thurs nites and space music on Sun nites
-Third Man,Blues Brothers, Sand Pebbles, Incredibles, Fast Runner, Tale of the Weeping Camel, Usual Suspects, Pulp Fiction, Yojimbo, The Professional, Ghost in the Shell, Reds, once were warriors, Bringing Up Baby, Paris Texas, Hudsucker Proxy - (you know, for kids), city of lost children, ApocalypseNow Redux, Touch of Evil, Miller's Crossing, ...Really I could just go on and on. I really would like to take an unending film class but, oh well.
Truthfully I haven't been watching a great deal of movies lately.
Food: I'll eat just about anything but liver in it's normal form, though I do like pate.
Really, I love food, all kinds. Sharing food with someone you care about is bestest.
The six things I could never do without
friends,
dental floss,
a book...must ..have ..reading ..material
a sharp chefs knife,
a good hat,
juice, I like juice.
chocolate.
...a really good peach. berry pies. These are bonuses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
If my cat took accounting classes, so she could do my taxes, would all her work need to be translated from base 8?...cuz she has no thumbs.
Someone said shades of gray, not the color. I'm stealing that, cuz I like it and it works.
How I can better integrate helping others in to my daily life.
Otherwise no one particular thing. I like to let my mind wander...do be do be do...( Socrates, Sartre, Sinatra )
On a typical Friday night I am
hangin' with friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I'm not really sure what kind of private thing I'd be willing to admit here.
Then there's the paradox that if I share it in public it's not really private is it?
Okay. I don't buy bottled water. There I said it.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 34–49
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
you are interested and would like to talk, and meet, ideally sooner than later. I'm not on here to just email you know.
you realize that actually, some of the more irreverent and witty folks you know also take rather boring pictures
you are better at improv -ing with a computer screen than I am
you understand that these profiles help to prove the Heisenberg uncertainty principle ( by trying to measure and define certain aspects, other aspects are less understood or measured less correctly... well you get the idea right?).