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38 M New York, NY

My Details

Last Online
Apr 6
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Strictly other
Christianity, and somewhat serious about it
Capricorn, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Sales / Marketing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and dislikes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently)

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My self-summary
My life has been completely unpredictable, and in a good way. I have loved, lost, failed on an epic scale multiple times, yet somehow I've managed to keep moving forward. I'm not perfect by any means, and I don't seek it in others. So if you're looking for perfection, sorry to disappoint you.

Here I am, 37 years old, single, and back in NYC for the 3rd time after living/working in Southeast Asia for 4 years. At this point in my life, I'm looking for someone who is interested in dating and/or a long-term relationship. If you feel the need to party until 5 am every weekend, frequent gay bars, and enjoy the circuit life, I'm not for you.

I work as a digital strategist for a global consulting firm. I can honestly say I love what I do: I listen to conversations in social media and create actionable insights for brands around the world.

In my free time I'm quite adventurous. I am an extreme mountain biker, I like to ski out of bounds, I enjoy hanging upside down on zip lines, and signing up for mud runs. Would be great to find a partner in crime who is interested in building a committed relationship and getting muddy with me once in a while.

Don't be shy if you like what you've read. Despite my photos, i'm not all about bodies and muscle. I workout because it makes me feel good; I don't seek validation from it.
What I’m doing with my life
Taking each day as it comes, learning, growing, and having a blast!
I’m really good at
Cooking, anticipating people's needs, laughing and being there for others when it really counts.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I just finished reading "The Martian." Killer story; and a reminder to me that no one should ever give up. :) Any men that have read and processed the Velvet Rage, I definitely want to talk to you. It took me a long time to find my authentic self and be proud of who I am, so being around other gay men who are at this stage in their life is key. I don't watch much TV, but I do love dystopian future movies like the Matrix, Hunger Games, Blade Runner, etc. Food: I follow the Paleo diet so I love nuts/seeds, veg, and meat meat meat. :)
The six things I could never do without
1. Protein
2. My friends and family
3. The feeling of unconditional love
4. God
5. The gym
6. My passport
I spend a lot of time thinking about
things I want to do that I've never done before. I'm fearless in that department.
On a typical Friday night I am
Either working out or meeting up with friends for dinner/drinks
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I've chosen the wrong men in the past, but no more!
I’m looking for
  • Gay guys only
  • Ages 30–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
If you are looking for a masculine fit guy and willing to go the distance.