New!   Incognito Mode. Now you can hand-select who sees you on OkCupid. That means total control of your visibility.

Find better matches with our advanced
matching system

—% Match
—% Enemy


32 Deltona, FL Woman


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 25–39
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 7:41pm
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Mostly anything
Sagittarius, but it doesn’t matter
Working on university
Strictly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Has dogs and likes cats
English, Tagalog (Okay)

Similar Users

My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Hey there! I'm Jess. I am a generally happy individual, and try to find the positive in every experience. I love music (I play, write, and sing) and am what you may call "a creative type." I am Sicilian and come from a huge family (I have 7 siblings total) and hail from Chicago, Illinois. (Go Bears!)

I don't feel as if I fit into one particular classification. So if you have a type, I may or may not be it. I'm just living life, pursuing the best version of myself that I can.

I love my career, and am back in school pursuing my Masters degree. Life is good, but I'm ready to find someone to share in the goodness with me. I am also on a journey towards being as healthy as I can be. I lost my father about two and a half years ago, and made the decision to put my health first. I have lost 143 pounds (and surgery...just hard work and perseverance) since August of 2013 and am enjoying this new lifestyle! I will always be a curvy gal, so if that's not your thing, no offense taken. Everyone likes what they like.

But, if you're looking for someone that will make you smile, encourage and motivate you to achieve your goals...someone who will laugh with you and give you the best hugs you've ever received...then I'm your gal. Life is meant to be enjoyed...and I would love to find someone to enjoy it with.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I currently work as an Operations Trainer for one of the largest global financial services companies. Ask me, and I'll tell you!
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm a musician, so I'd like to say I'm good at making music! I am constantly singing a song, jotting down a lyric, or messing with a melody. My mom toured with a band back in the day, and my father was literally the most talented guitar player I've ever heard. What can I say? It's in my blood!
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I suppose I'll have to go based off of what I've been told in the past.

The top three things people notice:

1) My height
2) My eyes
3) My boobs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I was an English major in college, and have always been enamored with old literature. Les Mis, Pride and Prejudice...anything by Austen, Hugo, Bronte, can't go wrong.

I read a lot. I've recently become a fan of Chuck Pahlaniuk, and have his entire collection downloaded to my iPad.

I also have The Dark Tower series on the list of books to begin in the near future. I'm always up for discovering new authors. I enjoy Non-fiction as well...I suppose I'm just a bookworm.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Music, family, faith, friends, my dog, and coffee. Not necessarily in that order.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Ways to truly enjoy life...reminding myself to stop and pause to recognize the little things we as busy people tend to overlook.

Who I am, who I've been, and who I'm becoming.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Homework. Lol. But I try to get out and do fun and exciting things as much as I can. I love live music, so you'll usually catch me somewhere with a band playing.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
That I'm pretty darn awesome. Go ahead, tell your friends.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You're an awesome person!

Seriously though, I don't really have a type, per se, but I do tend to find myself drawn to creative types, people with aspirations of becoming the best version of themselves. Complacency is one of the most unattractive qualities a person can possess.

You should shoot me a message if:

*You're funny (an appreciation of sarcasm is a huge plus).
*You believe yourself to be a good person.
*Family means something to you.
*You're tall (sorry boys, I'm 6'...this is a bit of a deal breaker here...this does not mean you need to be taller than me, as an fyi-just tall-ish)
*You love a variety of (or can at least appreciate) music.
*You know the difference between they're, there, and their. Or you, you're., too, and two.
*You actually read my profile and think we would get along. (I know it's long, but I've read yours completely before deciding if/when to message you...which, btw, I will rarely send a message first)
*You have a beard. This is not a requirement, but I just like bearded, burly, boys! (Well, men...but the word "boys" worked better with my attempt at alliteration. )