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21 M Melbourne, Australia

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 18–25
  • Near me
  • Who are single
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My Details

Last Online
Aug 28
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Trying to quit
Agnosticism, and laughing about it
Libra, and it’s fun to think about
Working on university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Mostly monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Dislikes cats
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Hi I'm Jasper

I'm a chill guy; I am very logic/science driven but also very open-minded. I do a lot more thinking than I do talking, and I am interested in anything to do with health, psychology, and consciousness.

I consider myself to be a friendly guy who is fairly intelligent, down-to-earth, positive, a little bit introverted, and thirsty for knowledge and experience.

For those who are interested in this stuff:
myer-briggs INTP "architect"
enneagram 9w1 "peacemaker"/"dreamer"

note: cats are okay. i set my details to 'dislike' them because i have an allergy to their fur. i am not a cat-hating monster
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm studying Traditional Chinese Medicine (2nd year) at the Southern School of Natural Therapies in Fitzroy. So, in that course I'm learning acupuncture, herbal medicine, massage, and also a lot of Western medical science. I also want to learn to speak Chinese at some point.

In my spare time I am either chillin' with friends, on the internet, playing video games, or learning about something neato.

Oh, I also used to do computer animation stuff and a bit of game development. I'm good with computers in general, and I was studying Multimedia Systems at RMIT for a year before I dropped it (figured it was a waste of money considering I could teach myself the content easily for free).
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
explaining things
english, proofreading
analyzing things
being emotionally stable as fuck
providing an impartial perspective
i don't know probably some other stuff, maybe i have deluded myself and am not actually good at any of these things
The first things people usually notice about me
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Apparently I have an accent that sounds "american or canadian or something". I do not know why. I travelled a lot, I guess, must have picked something up somewhere.

Also, I wear hats. I have worn them since before they were considered hipster, okay... I'm not going to stop wearing them just because I'm a trendsetter *tips fedora*
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll just keep adding to this shit as I remember things

(mostly boring/philosophical stuff)
Aldous Huxley: 'The Perennial Philosophy', 'The Doors of Perception and Heaven and Hell', 'Island'
Daniel Pinchbeck: 'Breaking Open the Head'
Terence McKenna: 'Food of the Gods'
Paul Reps: 'Zen Flesh, Zen Bones'
Osho: 'The Book of Secrets'
Matthew Reilly's stuff is a blast though

Ip Man
Kung Fu Hustle
A Scanner Darkly
Enter the Void
Fear and Loathing in Las Vegas
Zen Noir
Pan's Labyrinth
V for Vendetta
James Bond
+really over the top martial arts movies and movies that are so bad they're good

Code Geass
Dragon Ball
Adventure Time
Fairy Tail
Avatar: Last Airbender/Korra
Black Books
The Mighty Boosh

Emancipator, Bonobo, Amon Tobin, Beats Antique, Gramatik, and more:

I love warm and homely foods like stews, curries, soups, and roasts.

Super Smash Bros
Soul Calibur V
Diablo I, II
Civilization V
Bioshock series
Heroes III
The Witcher series
and many more i am not even going to try to list them all
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
books with stuff to learn in them
an internet connection

that's all
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
consciousness ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Either chilling, playing games, watching something, or getting drunk, with friends.

Or just winging it, I don't know. Whatever's on basically, I'm down for basically anything.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I have what western medicine calls fibromyalgia - so, basically chronic pain and fatigue. This is a big pain in the... everything HEHE

I've gotten pretty used to it now though, so no big deal. It motivates me to keep learning and learning and learning and learning and learning and learning and learning and learning and
You should message me if
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- you fulfill the criteria of what "i'm looking for"
- you are either chill OR fun
- you are not a terrible person
- (optional) you have questions about me, life, existence, or anything; i love these kinds of discussions