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jaxium

37 / F / Straight / Single

Chicago, Illinois

Her Details

Last Online
Yesterday – 12:10pm
Ethnicity
White
Height
5′ 6″ (1.68m).
Body Type
Curvy
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Socially
Drugs
Never
Religion
Sign
Sagittarius but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Sales / Marketing / Biz Dev
Income
Rather not say
Offspring
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Pets
Likes dogs and has cats
Speaks
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
I have an easy laugh and a big smile. I love spontaneous acts and tend to prefer all things off-the-beaten path. I love being active, chocolate, music, honesty, humor, warm nights with cool breezes, novels, graphic novels, NPR, Daily Show, jazz and blues, indie movies, conversing while cooking, chicken strips with hot sauce, drinking margaritas in the sunshine, being in bed, trail hiking, my jeans, the farmer's market, lazing about on my dad’s front porch in the warm weather, a bar with a good jukebox, and any down and dirty bbq shack. I love inappropriate humor, double entendres and things so funny they make you cry.

So let's cut to the chase... and help you answer the real question at hand here - should you invest any more time on this profile. Hopefully this list will help;

1) Petulance, jealousy and pettiness are not part of my job description, so if you are into drama - I am definitely not your girl.
2) If it's somewhere you want to go, I am game - if it is new and different, then I am always interested.
3) If you are funny, I will laugh and laugh a lot.
4) If I am attracted to you, I am never not in the mood.
5) I may not cook (well) or clean - but I am a problem solver; so delivery and a maid are always a phone call away.
6) Finding the perfect, healthy partner for me is more of a priority in my life than marriage or kids (which is why I'm still single).
7) There is always money in the banana stand...
What I’m doing with my life
Traveling every chance I get.
I’m really good at
Kissing. No really, it's true. Oh, and kickboxing.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Books: The Road (MCarthy), Pride and Prejudice (Austin), World War Z (Brooks), Ragtime (Doctorow), The Girl with the Dragon Tattoo series, Game of Thrones series; Just Kids; Buddy Guy: When I Left Home; Pillars of the Earth

Movies: Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind; Goodfellas; Miller's Crossing; (500) Days of Summer; the Kill Bill movies; Hard Candy (really disturbing - but Ellen Page's best work)

Music: There are far too many music snobs in Chicago and I believe music is meant to be enjoyed not used as a judging stick. I love music, any and all (well, most) kinds. So if you're a die hard Brit pop fan, or some kind of techno-trance junkie, or if jam bands are your scene, that's fine! But don't discriminate. I'm an equal opportunity kinda girl and I welcome all recommendations. That said, my favorites would be Buddy Guy, RL Burnside, Weezer, Rilo Kiley, Eva Cassidy, Avett Brothers, Black Keys, Simon and Garfunkel, Old Crow Medicine Show...really, tip of the iceberg...

Food: YUM.

All of these lists could go on and on....
The six things I could never do without
Good books, sexy music (ipod), interesting people, my boxing gloves, love/sex, my bed, chocolate, cheese, wine, travel, adventure...yeah, that's more than six. Deal with it.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
What it means when a man describes himself as curvy...?
On a typical Friday night I am
If it's a typical Friday night, I won't remember.

Just kidding! I'm not a HUGE drinker.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I do not like to sleep in a room with open doors.
I’m looking for
  • Guys who like girls
  • Ages 33–45
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating
You should message me if
I believe passion is a gorgeous vice. And if you know and appreciate the differences between sexual and sensual all the better. If you are spontaneous and laid back but responsible and level-headed. I don't have a type; I like all types. So surprise me.

I'm sad to even have to say this but you SHOULD NOT MESSAGE me if a) you are a druggie b) YOU ARE MARRIED c)you are under 30 d) you are over 46.

If you are interested please message me as I rarely initiate conversation with new matches.