Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Consider this my cosmic welcome mat.
I am looking for a sexy guy in the vicinity of Chicago.
Financially literate, pays taxes, has a savings account
Generous with time and affection
Citizen of the world
Ability to genuinely listen and shows an interest in others
Close to his mother
Holds political beliefs that benefit society rather than
Completed educational goals or pursuing them aggressively
Intentional with decisions
And facial hair. So sexy!
So what I have to offer in return- I exude joy. I celebrate life’s
little victories. I am grateful for delicious food, good wine,
close friends, family, babies, laughing, sharing, music, dancing. I
am an extrovert. I do not *need* my quiet time with a book, though
on occasion that is nice.
Cooking is my zen. I maintain a garden to supply fresh organic
ingredients. I own lots of cookbooks for inspiration. I am looking
for someone who makes healthy food choices. I have beautiful curves
and I do yoga. I'd like to get back into jogging now that I've
moved across the street from a big park.
My next great love- travel. I prefer places that are a little rough
around the edges. Places where English isn't the main language and
Americans are few and far between. I scuba dive and often seek out
beautiful fish and sea creatures.
There's much more to learn about me, if interested. Like I was born
in Pittsburgh and I don’t miss Steelers games. But this shall be
enough for now!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Every day I'm hustlin', every day I'm hustlin'....is what it feels
like. I'm highly educated. I'm not even going to say what I do,
you'll go making all kinds of assumptions that are likely not true.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
According to the personality test, I am an ESTJ, which means I'm
extroverted, rational, logical, systematic, and detail oriented
(can't you tell by this profile?!) I put forth a lot of effort into
anything I do, abide by traditions, and am very committed in
relationships. ESTJ's are enthusiastic and witty. Our weakness is
putting logic above emotional sensitivity, and I can be impatient
with those I believe are inefficient or sloppy. Yep, so there I am.
Decide if you can deal with that :p
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, are they blue or green??? And me pirate booty! Arrr
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm not really into fiction. I enjoy non-fiction because
there are too many people, places, and theories to learn
Movies: I like comedies, documentaries, animation, drama. Not so
big on uber violent action flicks or scary scary horror
TV Shows: I rarely watch TV.
Music: Cee-Lo, Justice, Basement Jaxx, Sister Nancy, Thievery
Corporation, Stephen Marley (any Marley really), Beats Antique,
Groove Armada. Matisyahu, Joao Gilberto, James Brown... so, jam by
Food: Indian, Mexican, Thai, Italian, Spanish, Greek, Middle
Eastern, French....I like it all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, food, oxygen, laptop, sex....is what I would say
if I were a dull dull girl listing the obvious. Let's go with my
top 6 most favorite things, without which, life would be less
Neapolitan wood-fired pizza
Overly ripe mangos
High doses of vitamin D
I am picturing a scenario where I have all of these at once, and a
margarita...ahh pure bliss!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be happy- where can I give more gratitude? Find more peace?
Employ unconditional love? Show a genuine interest in others? It's
hard work! A moment-by-moment practice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a glass of wine at my best friend's house while her two year
old sits on my lap and colors. We all debate what color shoes the
dinosaur should wear. We settle on purple, and then go back to
dissecting my latest OKCupid date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My mom still gets me an easter basket. She's just super thoughtful.
If we were dating awhile you'd probably get one too.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
We have commonality. Overlapping interests. Or you have totally
different interests that are equally rad. You're within my age
range. You own a yacht and want to whisk me away to sail the Greek
Isles (then ignore the part about common interests or age range.)
Or you have a raft and a pool, that works too (then you must fall
in my age range and be interesting.) I kid, but those who love the
water get bonus points.
I've had 4 unsuccessful run-ins with chefs this year. Please don't
be a chef. I will initially be attracted to you for the potential
of a lifetime of good dinners. But then you will inevitably start
acting like a chef.
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