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32 Chicago, IL Woman


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I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 27-43
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Online now!
Relationship Type
5' 2" (1.57m)
Body Type
Agnosticism and it’s important
Post grad
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
English (Fluently), German (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Consider this my cosmic welcome mat.

I am looking for a sexy guy in the vicinity of Chicago.

Sexy is:
Financially literate, pays taxes, has a savings account
Generous with time and affection
Citizen of the world
Ability to genuinely listen and shows an interest in others
Close to his mother
Holds political beliefs that benefit society rather than himself
Completed educational goals or pursuing them aggressively
Intentional with decisions
And facial hair. So sexy!

So what I have to offer in return- I exude joy. I celebrate life’s little victories. I am grateful for delicious food, good wine, close friends, family, babies, laughing, sharing, music, dancing. I am an extrovert. I do not *need* my quiet time with a book, though on occasion that is nice.

Cooking is my zen. I maintain a garden to supply fresh organic ingredients. I own lots of cookbooks for inspiration. I am looking for someone who makes healthy food choices. I have beautiful curves and I do yoga. I'd like to get back into jogging now that I've moved across the street from a big park.

My next great love- travel. I prefer places that are a little rough around the edges. Places where English isn't the main language and Americans are few and far between. I scuba dive and often seek out beautiful fish and sea creatures.

There's much more to learn about me, if interested. Like I was born in Pittsburgh and I don’t miss Steelers games. But this shall be enough for now!
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Every day I'm hustlin', every day I'm hustlin' what it feels like. I'm highly educated. I'm not even going to say what I do, you'll go making all kinds of assumptions that are likely not true.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
According to the personality test, I am an ESTJ, which means I'm extroverted, rational, logical, systematic, and detail oriented (can't you tell by this profile?!) I put forth a lot of effort into anything I do, abide by traditions, and am very committed in relationships. ESTJ's are enthusiastic and witty. Our weakness is putting logic above emotional sensitivity, and I can be impatient with those I believe are inefficient or sloppy. Yep, so there I am. Decide if you can deal with that :p
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My eyes, are they blue or green??? And me pirate booty! Arrr
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Books: I'm not really into fiction. I enjoy non-fiction because there are too many people, places, and theories to learn about.

Movies: I like comedies, documentaries, animation, drama. Not so big on uber violent action flicks or scary scary horror movies.

TV Shows: I rarely watch TV.

Music: Cee-Lo, Justice, Basement Jaxx, Sister Nancy, Thievery Corporation, Stephen Marley (any Marley really), Beats Antique, Groove Armada. Matisyahu, Joao Gilberto, James Brown... so, jam by my side?

Food: Indian, Mexican, Thai, Italian, Spanish, Greek, Middle Eastern, French....I like it all.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, food, oxygen, laptop, what I would say if I were a dull dull girl listing the obvious. Let's go with my top 6 most favorite things, without which, life would be less wonderful:

Neapolitan wood-fired pizza
Overly ripe mangos
Flip flops
Reggae music
High doses of vitamin D

I am picturing a scenario where I have all of these at once, and a margarita...ahh pure bliss!
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How to be happy- where can I give more gratitude? Find more peace? Employ unconditional love? Show a genuine interest in others? It's hard work! A moment-by-moment practice.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Having a glass of wine at my best friend's house while her two year old sits on my lap and colors. We all debate what color shoes the dinosaur should wear. We settle on purple, and then go back to dissecting my latest OKCupid date.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My mom still gets me an easter basket. She's just super thoughtful. If we were dating awhile you'd probably get one too.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
We have commonality. Overlapping interests. Or you have totally different interests that are equally rad. You're within my age range. You own a yacht and want to whisk me away to sail the Greek Isles (then ignore the part about common interests or age range.) Or you have a raft and a pool, that works too (then you must fall in my age range and be interesting.) I kid, but those who love the water get bonus points.

I've had 4 unsuccessful run-ins with chefs this year. Please don't be a chef. I will initially be attracted to you for the potential of a lifetime of good dinners. But then you will inevitably start acting like a chef.