I think most people feel very uncomfortable writing about themselves. My name is Jay, born in India and have lived in Massachusetts since age 4. I've enjoyed living in the urban, suburban, and country lifestyles. I adapt very easily and make friends everywhere I go. I lived a fun and interesting life so far and look forward to newer challenges and experiences. I had very nice loving long term relationships. I am very close to my family and friends. I keep in touch with my childhood, college, and other friends during my adult life. I have very beautiful son who is 10 and in 5th grade. My youngest sister got married in June. You can see pictures from the Catholic Wedding in Worcester and Indian wedding at the Taj in Boston. As you can see by my pictures, family is very important to me. Everyone in my family is beautiful and educated.

I'm not sure what the next chapter of my life will be like. I live my life with responsibility,care, self respect, work hard on my career and help my family. I have a very nice career that keeps getting better. I'm a Systems Engineer, we manage over 50 companies IT networks. I'm assistant to the CTO and CEO. I am responsible for Technology, Operations, and Business Decisions. To relieve my stress, I go to the gym a times a week and love my work out routine.I bought a new Bike in last Spring and plan on riding it along the Charles River and other hot sports throughout New England. I unfortunately hurt my right foot a couple of months ago and trying to heal it healthy. My life is not boring, I'm very active socially and love many activities. I'm a very big sports fan, movie and music collector, I love to shop, decorate and fix my house, build things, etc. During the warm weather I enjoy going to the beach, boating, playing mini golf, tennis , and walking. During the winters, I enjoy taking my son ice skating, bowling, and wherever he likes. As a sports fan, I'm pretty lucky. My teams are always fun to watch. I tend to be very focused on the Penguins and then I take a break from sports during the summers. I was a big fan of watching the Red Sox, Revolution, and pro tennis. Not so much any more. I like to be outside thinking of other things.

In past situations, the best relationships have been the ones that have great communication, friendship, emotional,very strong physical bond, and affection.

I know my way around Cape Cod, Rhode Island, Connecticut, New Hampshire,Maine, and Boston. I have been to many places in The US on both coasts,Montreal, Toronto, England, Germany, Switzerland, and India. My goal is to travel more around the world with my future love. I plan on making this a priority with my career. I would love to go to Italy, Greece, Portugal, Thailand, India again, Vancouver, and Australia.

I am a very confident person and happy about my career and personal life. However, with online dating is much different than real life. I would feel more comfortable if I am approached first. Pick up lines are not my style. I was always approached first and things always grew with great communication and life experiences. If I think you are nice I will let you know. Unlike most people, I feel life is about taking chances and good things will happen. I am very optimistic always think of positive things about people. I like to take things one day at a time. I am very happy with my life and do not want to alter it too much. I don't like conflicts and I avoid them. I am also very sensitive to others feelings. I do not want to hurt anyone. I am don't like to be pushed or rushed into things. I like to enjoy the moment and if there are many positive reasons that I will grow with it. I do appreciate some one who is neat and clean at home. Being organized has always helped me prepare for important things. My best qualities are being very patient, polite, professional, caring, loyalty, and appreciation. Other good qualities are from living day to day life, you learn and value.

As you notice, I think of music and films quite often. I always have a song on my mind and love to share them on my profile.

namaste (means hello and good bye)

keep your electric eyes on me- Bowie

Words are flowing out like endless rain into a paper cup
They slither wildly as they slip away across the universe
Pools of sorrow, waves of joy are drifting through my open mind
Possessing and caressing me
Jai Guru Deva OM- The Beatles

I think knowledge is the key. I feel that my educational background , life experiences, and a variety of interests that make me unique.
It is very important to complete what you started. Many times in my life I've been relied on creating and fixing something that I've never had experience with. I usually find the solution.
In my personal life, people tell me that I'm very good at making them laugh and have fun.

I've been told many things during my life time. Most of all, I feel happy when someone thinks of me as being friendly, honest, and intelligent. Superficial things don't mean much to me. I would not trade my life with anyone.
I have no wrinkles and my hair changes quite often. I think people who have a variety of qualities will always have different types of admirers.

Variety is good. My collection has over 30,000 songs and 5,000 movies. I love classics, comedies, musicals, documentaries, and thrillers. My favorite artists are Bowie, U2, Sade, Beatles, Asha Bhosle, Bob Marley, Depeche Mode, Aerosmith, and the Gipsy Kings. I buy books quite often for my Ipad Mini. Mostly read about Technology, food recipes, and career related topics.
Food depends on the company. I enjoy trying new things.

You can not live without inspiration and goals. Creativity and imagination. Reality vs. Fantasy. Love, friendship, communication, and intimacy. Material things come and go. To me it's all about the people I love. Live today because there may be no tomorrow.

I'm very devastated right now, Bruins goalie never has played this good in his life. Experts predicted the Penguins to win and we loss very close games. I will be in mourning for about a week and then no more thought about sports until September. Patriots, Red Sox, Penguins, Revolution, and Celtics.

Most of my life is not typical but Friday nights usually are. Have dinner with my son, watch Netflix, go biking or somewhere fun.

Many people make many assumptions about me that are not true. Some people think I'm too serious, that is not the case.

You are a very nice woman with a good heart.

Also if you need help with your computer and want advice on technology.