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Really I dont think relationships can be forced, hoping to maybe find some like minded adventurous people and at least make some new friends. All things should start with great friendships first.
I'm a very honest guy, I dont have time for games or players. I'm also very open minded when it comes to adventure and even sexuality, but dont mistake that for thinking I'm interested in just sex, I'm not. At this point in my life thats not enough, I want more, at least very good friends before anything like that happens. I point it out because people seem to mistake my open mindedness when it comes to the body with thinking I'm only interested in that one thing, I guarantee you I'm much more complex than that. I guess what I'm trying to say is that even though I'm very open minded when it comes to sexuality, my world does not revolve around it.
An open mind, a connection, a similar thinking woman that likes the full range of things from adventure to laying on the couch together watching stupid tv shows is what turns me on these days.
I am pretty much a nerd and would love to find someone to be nerdy with, I am not a party animal, although I like watching people party like on bourbon street, the Vegas strip etc. People watching is one of my favorite hobbies. I like the history channel, food network, travel channel, I LOVE bookstores, especially old ones, I enjoy history, old architecture and of course art and photography.
I tend to like things off the beaten path, whether thats 5star suites or back alley hole in the wall places, tatoo festivals, or high end wine tastings.. its all the stuff in the middle that can get a little boring to me.
**Alright, seems that I need to be a little more clear.. I'm not looking to just hook up but I think sexual compatability is an important thing if something is going to develop beyond friends.. and people PLEASE.. having a high sex drive and wanting sex everyday does NOT automatically make you sexually "open minded" it makes you like quantity. I'm not interested in quantity, I dont need or want sex 2 or 3 times a day, I want to be with someone thats open minded not just open legged**
Sorry if that sounds crude or like a rant, but I'm tired of talking to women and having them try and pretend they are something they arent, thinking you'll just stick around long enough that when they finally reveal their true selves you'll be too invested to quit then.
Really why is it so hard to find someone thats compatible on ALL levels?