I think life is better shared with someone else by your side, having a good time together no matter what you are doing. From staying at home to watch a good movie, or quality TV show (no reality TV please, I have a sensitive stomach), or going out to dinner and a night on the town, as long as we are both having fun, then that is all we can ask.
Do you enjoy a sarcastic sense of humor? Good, ok we are on our way. Do you like an edgy slightly dark/dry sense of humor? Ok great we are still a go. Are you always politically correct, or easily offended? mmmm, well just know that my heart is in the right place, I may be sarcastic on the outside, but I'm sweet on the inside, really I swear.
By the way this site doesn't ask about your political leanings, so I would call myself a "practical progressive" (yep I came up with my own pigeon hole). If you are anywhere from the middle, to leaning to the left, then great, we are still doing well.