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  • Ages 23–69
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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5' 10" (1.78m)
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English (Fluently), French (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Thai (Somewhat)
My self-summary
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I've come to believe that all that life really is, in the end, is the etching away of culture's monochromatic paint job to unveil the colorful masterpiece of who we truly are, blemishes and all. There will always be some karmic residue here and there, of course, but that's what life is for!

Very passionate about life and at times intimidating because of this. A man confesses his need for feminine touch to calm down once in a while and yes that was a GoT reference and I hope you got it.

For myself I believe in constant growth and expansion. I like life this way because as long as I'm aligned with myself, the other aspects of being sync up naturally.

From southern California originally, I am a successful confirmation-blend of active yogi sadhaka & technology fanboy starter-upper stereotypes. I've traveled most of the Western world and a good chunk of Asia, closing in on either side of the Middle East (one day...). It's not that I don't enjoy traveling but shit, one day a home would be nice.

I love meeting new people. I am always down for new friendly connections but I use okcupid here because I seek love and cuddles just like the rest of us, smileyfaceemoji
What I’m doing with my life
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A young-adult lifetime of traveling the world as different personas has developed into a "happy media" company informing me that a new age is upon me and it's time to be done living out of a backpack, to start taking "trips" instead of artist-vagabonding life away. Transitions! I use technology to invoke the power of compassion and love to support a transforming global community, and it uses me to spread the love of the divine earth below our feet.

As for physical expression, besides yoga I am a musician: piano is my spirit instrument, accordion is my spirit animal. Guitar strings relax me and learning the trumpet lately has taught me a new form of lip-muscle intimacy. I'm recording my first CD right now, maybe you'll get to hear it.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Happy music teams:
Mingus, Hines, Dizzy
Bonobo, Quantic, Emancipator
Clozee, Phaeleh, Logistics
Strung Out, Face to Face, A Wilhelm Scream.


Baudrillard, Derrida, McKenna, Mahirishi Yogi. Neil Stephenson, William Gibson, RR Martim, Jeff Noon

Foods with cumin and turmeric. And gluten-free pizza.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How reality can be such a trip, each day a lesson.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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Venus in Aries or coffee enemas, take your pick
You should message me if
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You take care of yourself (mind and body) or at least acknowledge that you should (intention). You try to be aware of your internal displacements and projections onto others when it happens and you are on a path of self-healing/growth/development.

I'm seeking friends/partners/companionships that satisfy my phasal requirements for romance, intimacy and companionship. The details of those needs fluctuate in their own rhythm and are satisfied in different ways that I never can predict; but I can say that time and space are not relevant to this equation--I am a nomad at heart and despite changing locations often (up until this point in my life, anyway), I take very seriously the partners I choose to intimately connect with... I choose the infinite experiences capable through love (as opposed to the stagnant pseudo-existence founded on attachment and boundaries) BUT I BELIEVE IN AND STRIVE TO LIVE BY HEALTHY COMMUNICATION. I don't care if you/we are monogomous, polyamorous, or whatever, but you should care about that, too.

I want you to feel amazing around me and I want to feel amazing around you. No one should waste time with anyone who doesn't bring out the best in them.

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