I am the strong, silent type, and anti-typologies.
My Self-Summary
I'm not what You'd call voluble. Except after sugar.
I find four-leaf clovers. I think this means I am good at pattern
recognition.
I'm pretty here-and-now. My username should be hereandnow. I wonder
if that one's taken already. I won't check, because then I'd know.
I like possibility. I put off certainty; certainty doesn't use up
cognitive energy, and I've got that in bunkersfull. I will add that
this means I am apt to drift along in ill-defined relationships
much longer than anyone would expect. But only if they're
rewarding.
At the risk of sounding dull dull dull/fanatic, it's important to
me to live a
healthy and civically responsible life.
Now in Polish
Jestem z miasta, a jednak caly czas staram sie z niego uciec....
Jestem process-oriented i czesto uzywam zwrotow angielskich.
Dostalam ostatnio od ojca samochod, bo uwazal, ze nie przystaje,
zebym jezdzila autobusami. Mam mieszanie uczucia wobec posiadania
samochodu (a co dopiero wobec ojca), ale sprawia mi duza radosc
rozwozenie ludzi po domach po imprezach i innych spotkaniach.
What I’m doing with my life
Whoa. Who knew this questionnaire would get so threatening so
fast?
I spend a lot of time maintaining social connections. Most of them,
at any given moment, are long-distance.
I’m really good at
using "I" statements, which is handy given the format of this
questionnaire.
Adoring people.
Behavioral contagion. Not contagion. What's the word I'm looking
for. Maybe it's contagion.
Travelling. Keeping on moving don't stopping.
Dancing, with or
without a partner. I prefer with, but I can't lead. Oops that
belongs in I'm really bad at. (Want to know what else belongs
there? Being flip.)
Not giving away more than is strictly courteous.
Editing.
The first things people usually notice about me
In person: I have been told that it's hard to tell at first if I'm
joking or not. That's because usually I'm joking and not.
On paper: I write You with a capital letter.
My favorite books, movies, music, and food
Let me tell You, my favourite punctuation has got to be the /. I
need it so very often to express my inner conflicts. Ha. Other than
that, though, I don't really like playing favourites.
I will say this, though, about books. I'm wearied--WEARIED--by the
apparent requisite of non-linearity as a plot device in
contemporary fiction. For this reason, I find myself turning for
relief to mystery novels, where typically one thing happens after
another. Also, essays and short stories; that's what novels are
made up of these days anyway. [I will grant: that was perhaps a
touch snide.]
When I was in college I'd go to the flicks several times a week;
now I generally feel like it's too passive an activity. However, I
saw Le Scaphandre et le Papillon recently and did not at all
consider it a waste of time. I also saw Nadine this year at the
Warsaw Film Festival. It was good. I see most
action flicks. I can say
definitively, though, that I do not enjoy watching Quentin
Tarantino films.
I like rhythmic music and inventive rhymes. But mostly when You see
me bounding along in my headphones, I'm listening to people talking
on the radio. I guess I'm sort of a novelty-seeker except when I'm
feeling overstimulated. Then I (was going to say that I listen to
old standbys like Stevie Wonder or the Police or, frankly,
classical music, but really I) don't listen to anything except the
kids on the playground outside and my new travel alarm clock
ticking itself to eternity. Theorizing aside, I just did a sort of
my iTunes library by play count and Patty Griffin came up twice in
the top 5. Caution: I sing along. #6 is the song I do sit-ups
to.
I like food if it's
vegetarian. And
coffee.
The six things I could never do without
It's not my cell phone, let me tell You that. That was stolen a
while ago and it took me more time than others deemed necessary to
get a new SIM card. Probably this is due to my constant connection
to the internet. So that'll be thing #1.
I am addicted to
public radio. I experience
withdrawal symptoms when deprived of public radio. And going for a
run. And weather. I
like weather. And hearing the other side's arguments. Ha. This gets
easier the longer the list. Every time I run out of dental floss I
think that it really belongs on this list, but then it turns out I
can do without it, for days at a time. Am I
running out of things? I want contact
with my family and friends to be on the list. That's what #1 is
for.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
people.
whether to move back to North America.
whether it's superficial to judge potential partners by their
resting heart rate.
On a typical Friday night I am
torn between going home, going for a beer with friends from work,
going for dinner with friends from college, going for a swim, going
out on the town to boogie, etc.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit here
When I walk down, or up, stairs, I am nervous about tripping and
losing my teeth. It's true.
More seriously: I have relocated Way. Too. Many. Times.
I honestly don't know if I have another relocation left in
me.
Don't write to me if You're not thinking of coming to Warsaw, it'll
just depress me. I'm semi-serious about this, actually. I'm also
semi-joking, which of course is just as inapparent.
OK a few days have gone by and it turns out I was more joking than
serious. Can't stand all stalk and no action.
Also, I get bored with extended philosophical deliberations. At
some point, it's just, like, show me the data. I enjoy words, but I
don't trust them.
You should message me if
You like being in the present. Or You can take me to the
future.
We are 0% enemies and >0% friends and matches. I don't care what
we agree on as long as we don't disagree on anything.
I should say, I'm kidding. I welcome all communications.