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jazzdaddy

50 M Bend, OR

I’m looking for

  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 31–55
  • Near me
  • For new friends

My Details

Last Online
Today – 11:14am
Orientation
Straight
Ethnicity
White
Height
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Athletic
Diet
Strictly anything
Smokes
No
Drinks
Often
Drugs
Never
Religion
Buddhism, and laughing about it
Sign
Education
Graduated from university
Job
Management
Income
$60,000–$70,000
Relationship Status
Single
Relationship Type
Offspring
Has a kid, and might want more
Pets
Speaks
English

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My self-summary
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Ooh! Ooh! Pick me! Pick me!
Really, why not? I'm a terrific guy. Definitely not mainstream, and I like it like that. Many years ago, I wanted to be "in" the right crowd, and I did make it, for long enough to get very clear that is not where I wanted to be.
I aspire to be fearless- not stupid fearless, but not confined in my life by fear of what others would think, or do. Fearless to be myself, I guess, in every moment.
I have a lot to learn, and I'm a pretty good student. I hope to learn a lot from a partner, and return the favor with interest.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
My work is a big part of my life. I love what I do (mostly) and am proud of what I have accomplished. I'm the executive director of a nonprofit arts organization that I founded, and the organization is thriving. I feel good about that.
Being a dad is another big part. I am so grateful to have had the opportunity; I've learned so much about love and life.
In my spare time, I am a performing jazz musician, a rabid fly fisherman, a builder of things and a zen student.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
I'm pretty good at being self-effacing, actually. If forced, I would say I'm good at my job and I'm a great, but not perfect, dad. I am a good teacher.
The first things people usually notice about me
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Well, I haven't asked, but I would guess that people notice that I'm intense and intelligent.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I'm a musician, I got a degree in jazz performance, if you can believe there is such a thing. In the course of doing that, I learned a lot about classical music as well as jazz, and I love listening to Bach and Beethoven, Scarlatti and Mozart. One of my absolute favorite things to do is to lie in bed listening to great music with my lover- its been quite a while, but I'll bet it still floats my boat.

I love to read, but my selections generally are books people have given me. I enjoyed "Omnivore's Dilemma" very much, found Kieth Richards' autobiography entertaining, and just finished "The Kite Runner", which I found on the shelf in my mother's nursing home in WA DC. Brilliant book.

I don't have much time or interest in TV.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spent years working in the backcountry for Outward Bound, up in the N Cascades. Back then, the "absolute must haves" were a dry pair of socks, a hot drink, ibuprofen and a crossword puzzle to work on while the kids were sorting things out. Life is more complex now, but I still appreciate dry socks and a hot drink.

I'd rather not be without an instrument, one of my guitars, and I sure enjoy coffee. I suppose I should include my glasses, they do come in handy.

I guess I am easily satisfied in terms of material possessions. The "things" that are most important to me are not things- time with my daughter, playing music with friends, standing waist deep in a big river with my steelhead rod, hearing something extraordinary.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
A zen student spends a lot of time thinking about not thinking.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Hopefully playing a gig somewhere. I love performing, even though a lot of what I do is background music. If no gig, then packing for a fishing trip, or if I have my daughter (she is 7) having crazy fun with her.
You should message me if
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you aren't chicken! Maybe that's not very nice, I'm sorry. Message me if you're ready!