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40 Zürich, Switzerland Man


I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 20–54
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
6′ 2″ (1.88m)
Body Type
A little extra
Strictly anything
Atheism, and somewhat serious about it
Leo, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from masters program
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Fluently), German (Fluently), Italian (Fluently), Japanese (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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new yorker by birth. south tyrol by parent. swiss by buy-in. living in zurich. travelling as often as i can.

open. relaxed. warm. smiling. good. aware. reliable. honest. direct. demanding. polyamorously interested. giving.

love open minded people with a purpose in life. be it total freedom, self-fulfillment of any kind or other.

i have been happily married for over a decade and living sexually free with my wife.

i wonder a lot. i like friendship. i like kitchens. i love the feeling of my bare hand i an huge bowl of uncooked rice.

i like to stand on mountain tops. i love vast plain fields of windy grass. i love the sky. i imagine what is behind the boundary of the universe. i am fascinated by the term "nothing".

authenticity drives me.

and i will resist everything, except temptation... exactly as oscar wilde had put it. and then, why should i resist?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
being happy is what i am. often when warm summer rain falls on dry concrete and i feel like when i am a boy all over again. the world and me. alone. nothing. the smell originates from a substance called geosin - which is the main ingredient of wet soil.

living a happy open marriage with my wife. free thinking and free loving tendencies welcome.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
making people happy. be good. i have no other goal in life. i love a lot.
The first things people usually notice about me
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i am very present. as are my voice and nose.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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you gotta have balls. quiet - the power of introvert in a world that can't stop talking. musicophilia. jahrhundertsommer. schneetage. hotel new hampshire. netherland. istanbul. spieltrieb. so long and thanks for all the fish. tschick. bonfire of vanities. the history of love. 1Q84. ein tag am meer. herztier. retter der welt. the final testament. aber simens - schnee im august? the secret of lost things. der schwimmer. the goneaway world. reborn. the invention of everything else. the wave. fiskadoro. bernsteintage. der virtuose.

the best exotic marigold hotel. children of huang shi. das leben der anderen. humboldt county. drive. effroyables jardins. facing ali. ferris bueller's day off. flight of the navigator. the goonies. frequency. frost/nixon. game 6. the ghost writer. gran torino. harry brown. he was a quiet man. hierro. how i got lost. i come with the rain. i melt with you. in our name. electric mist. inception. intouchables. little miss sunshine. joe versus the volcano. king of new york. raging bull. godfather. last night. le grand bleu. lennon nyc. moon. love actually. man on wire. marley & me. masjävlar. matrix. metropia. middle men. milk. papillon. point break. powder blue. rain man. the rum diary. saint john of las vegas. the big lebowski. scrooged. serpico. shame. the shawshank redemption. something is killing tate. splash. taking care of business. taking chance. taxi driver. the air i breathe. the answer man. company men. the drifter. the end of the line. fifth element. fighter. the game. the good night. hitchhiker's guide to the galaxy. the human contract. the king's speech. manhattan project. wonder on 42nd street. the messenger. the mission. the natural. the road. the soloist. the town. the tree. copland. tinker tailor soldier spy. traitor. transit. tron legacy. un conte de noël. flight. wall street. wall-e. waltz with bashir. warrior. the way back. win win. being john malkovich. womb. wonderful world. wrecked. the abyss. city island. coming to america. the firm. the fourth state. ruby sparks. the impostor. the master. the money pit. restless city. stand up guys. trouble with the curve. wish you were here. three days of the condor. rocky. groundhog day.

s#*! my dad says. 24. 30 rock. 666 park avenue. american horror story. arrested development. the big bang theory. blue bloods. boston legal. breaking bad. californication. castle. community. csi: new york. damages. the defenders. do no harm. elementary. eli stone. elightened. entourage. episodes. fairly legal. the following. friends. the good wife. heros. homeland. house. house of lies. how i met your mother. the killing. las vegas. last man standing. lie to me. men of a certain age. modern family. new girl. the newsroom. oursourced. person of interest. prison break. rescue me. rules of engagement. saturday night live. suits. three inches. two and a half man.

soundtracks & movies
babel. blue velvet. american gangster. collateral. soul kitchen. love actually. the truman show. sleepless in seattle. apocalypse now. pink panther's penthouse party. ma fleur. the soloist. the fountain. moon. three days of the condor. 2046. rocky. groundhog day. k-pax. autumn in new york. manhattan. midnight express. the dark knight. something's gotta give. the departed. philadelphia. field of dreams. sneakers. okuburito. midnight cowboy. memoirs of a geisha. the terminal. finding neverland. oss 117. the hours. palermo shooting. little children. the jungle book. preisner's musik. the secret garden.

there is too much. i can't.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
good water & good food.
6 senses.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
why everything is.
the concept of time.
where energy came from.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
seeing a late night movie.
at a friends' house.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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i love being ___ by a ___ when at the same time i am ___ by another ___.
You should message me if
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i like your warmth.
you know who you are.
i awake something in you.
you like japanese as a language.
i absolutely will want to meet you.
you're not opposed to happy open forms of relationships.