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40 M Hoboken, NJ

I’m looking for

  • Women who like men
  • Ages 26–38
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 9″ (1.75m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Graduated from university
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), Hebrew (Poorly)

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My self-summary
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I am a user experience/user interface designer who works at a great agency in downtown Manhattan. Which means: I think through, story board and then design applications that are developed for the web and mobile devices. It's a pretty cool gig and I like the people I work with — which makes the days so very special. heh

What I truly love is playing guitar. I play in a band for fun. You can find me noodling on my guitars for hours, playing blistering rock solos and riffs. Although I must confess, I've mellowed out since high school( more Megadeth riffs).

I'm originally from Cape Cod but have been in the NY/NJ area for about 12 years....This should be enough to go on... writing profiles is not my favorite activity.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm making sense of the puzzle pieces of what my life once was, and rearranging them into what my life will be.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Guitar, making collages, photography, remembering minute subtleties of movies I've seen as a child. Staying out of the lines in coloring books. Being wonderfully honest without seeming rude. Telling you how I feel. Hoping you'll like me for the me I am.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. The fact that my eyes almost disappear when I smile. The fact that you will want to throw your arms around my manly chest when I smile and show off the dimples I had surgically implanted five moons ago. Incidentally, I never smile when I walk so I can see where I'm going.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Wolfmother... how did I ever miss these guys? WTF! Awesome.
Led Zep... especially the live stuff "How the West Was Won" "BBC Sessions"

2001: A Space Odyssey (as well as the movie)
Food: Canned tuna. (I wanna be in a band called "Canned Tuna")
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
Family, friends, (air, food, water, wood), music, art, love, and hope. What am I gonna write, my iPhone?

Analogies for how I'm feeling.
Comforting presences.
Liver with fava beans and a nice chianti.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game. to get off this site.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Probably just beat from the work week... either relaxed dinners or drinks with friends or simply chilling at home.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
Stickers on food products give me the willies (eg. price tags on fruit — gross).
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
If you're looking for a loving, healthy (please don't tell me you just made out with a Liberian😝) and normal adult-like relationship... and you don't wear evening gowns to a first date.

Also... if you profile is 0% / 0% with nothing written (or the most generic tripe possible) I'm going to assume you're (well..the profile) a fake and there's some troll behind it all...