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36 Webster, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 23–45
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Mar 23
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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I’ll be honest, I don’t live life to the fullest.

I’ve never base jumped off a skyscraper naked, or yelled "woooo" at a concert.

But I’m gutsy in my own way.

I moved across the country after college because it seemed like a good idea at the time. And it was. It set me up well professionally and allowed me to later move back near my family without jeopardizing my career.

And now I’m trying out a little entrepreneurialism. I think it’ll work out well, but who knows.

I’m not entirely sure where I’m headed, but I feel that I’m on the right path.

Other tidbits:

-I love deep conversations and exploring and trying to understand things. My degree is in philosophy and that really permeates everything I do. If you find that I ask you a lot of questions, it’s because I’m genuinely curious and I want to learn more about you.

-You now have the Pink Panther theme stuck in your head.

-I can make a really bitchin' omelette. My lasagna recipe isn't half bad either.

-I'm a competent firearms instructor with a carefully developed belief in the importance of individual empowerment.

-I love reading. My bedroom looks like a library exploded. I love writing, too, so of course I like message boards.

-I think I'd be okay with it if uncooked brownie mix was the only food we could ever eat.

-I'm not an okcupid subscriber, so I don't see likes or anything. I do get messages, so if you're interested, just say 'hi'! Or tell me about your stuffed animals. Everyone needs stuffed animals sometimes.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm a senior software developer, a volunteer with both Lollypop Farm and Red Cross Disaster Services, and I help mentor people in my spare time.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Making cats purr and kids laugh. I'm like a butterfly! At least when I'm not shouting and angrily throwing things at computers, anyway.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My stunning good looks, immediately followed by my remarkable humility.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I recently saw Gravity and was absolutely blown away. I knew Cuaron was an amazing director from seeing Children Of Men, but I didn't think he'd manage to top himself so effortlessly. If you haven't seen it already, then go see it. If you have seen it, then go see it again!

Ask me nicely and maybe I'll take you.

I might require a free Icee.


The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind's a little hyperactive and fixates easily on weird stuff.

Recent interests have included the flawed education system, technological unemployment and its impact on America's youth, how to use technology to promote social development, statistical arguments about cosmology, and whether the antipodal nature of oceans and continents casts doubt on the theory of plate tectonics.

It gets a little complex in here sometimes.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Playing a board game with friends, seeing a good movie, going to a museum, bookstore, or art show, or sitting on a pier and talking about glaciers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I think giraffes are weird, and the more I think about them, the weirder they get.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You want to go on a grocery store adventure. It's amazing what those places stock that we never notice.

Or if you're Enya.

Or JK Rowling.