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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 26–40
  • Located anywhere
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 2:06am
6′ 0″ (1.83m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Not at all
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and has cats
English (Fluently), C++ (Fluently)
My self-summary
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I’ll be honest, I don’t live life to the fullest.

I’ve never base jumped off a skyscraper naked, and I don't yell "wooo" at concerts.

But I’m gutsy in my own way.

I moved across the country after college because it seemed like a good idea at the time. And it was. It set me up well professionally and allowed me to later move back near my family without jeopardizing my career.

And now I’m trying out a little entrepreneurialism. I think it’ll work out well, but who knows.

I’m not entirely sure where I’m headed, but I feel that I’m on the right path.

Other tidbits:

-I love deep conversations and exploring and trying to understand things. My degree is in philosophy and that really permeates everything I do. If you find that I ask you a lot of questions, it’s because I’m genuinely curious and I want to learn more about you.

-I can make a super fluffy and perfectly spiced omelette. My lasagna recipe isn't half bad either.

-You now have the Pink Panther theme somg stuck in your head. I hate it too.

-I love reading. My bedroom looks like a library exploded. I love writing, too.

-Among other hobbies, I enjoy teaching people to protect themselves, and I have a carefully developed belief in the importance of individual empowerment.

-I think I'd be okay with it if I had to live on uncooked brownie mix for the rest of my life.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm a senior software developer, a volunteer with both Lollypop Farm and Red Cross Disaster Services, and I help mentor people in my spare time.
The first things people usually notice about me
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My stunning good looks, immediately followed by my remarkable humility.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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I love a lot of things, for a lot of reasons. But naming them here won't tell you why I love them, or why they might deserve to be loved, or why they don't but I love them anyway.

So let's talk about the things we love over warm cookies and milk.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Everything. My mind's a little hyperactive, and I don't relax easily.

One of the more common subjects is the philosophy of technology.

I didn't get into technology because I was raised in it; I got into it because I saw how it was impacting people.

There is a disconnect between human problems and potential solutions that seems never to have been wider, and it's leaving a lot of people behind. Half the world is searching for a problem to solve, the other half is searching for a solution to its problems.

I don't think that we're doing enough, that I'm doing enough, to help bridge that gap, and technology seems to be the lynchpin.

Anyway, at the same time, I'm thinking about how intelligent my cat actually is, and whether I should put this phone down and try to sleep, and whether my neighbor's snoring is a medical problem or just a faulty transmission, and that I think it'd be nice when spring comes to work on a laptop on a picnic blanket, if I just had something to lean against.

Maybe a nice tree.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Staying in and doing my own thing, playing a board game with friends, seeing a good movie, going to a museum, bookstore, or art show, or sitting on a pier and talking about glaciers.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I think giraffes are weird, and the more I think about them, the weirder they get.
You should message me if
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You want to go on a grocery store adventure. It's amazing what those places stock that we never notice.

Or if you're Enya.

Or JK Rowling.