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23 Brooklyn, NY Genderfluid, Genderqueer

Genderfluid, Genderqueer

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18-33
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Yesterday – 5:29pm
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Strictly non-monogamous
6' 6" (1.98m)
Body Type
Average build
Other and it’s important
Working on Post grad
English (Fluently), French (Somewhat), Spanish (Somewhat)
My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Strange genderfluid weirdo. A little bit cool, a little bit freaky. They/them, please.

I love the moon more than everything else. Seriously, the moon is my favorite thing. It's completely wonderful, and I will talk to you about it for hours if you let me. If you want me to like you, a great first date idea is: sitting somewhere and looking at the moon and maybe talking a little bit, but mostly just looking at the moon.

Polyamorous: in general, I like to let every relationship that I am in, be it romantic or otherwise, define itself as it goes, and become any and all the things that seem natural for it. I'm not looking for monogamy or exclusivity or anything of that nature, but that does not mean I'm not open to serious and/or committed relationships. If you're interested in what polyamory means for me, or what it might mean for you, or what it might mean in general, let me know! I love talking about polyamory and related concepts, and finding out new ways that people practice those things.

I really like math, and fonts, and hip hop, and opera, and poetry, and getting lost. I don't know how to describe myself, and I don't know if I wish I did.

I speak in analogies, and I like to be confused.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm doing the grad school thing at the moment---I've just started a PhD in math at CUNY [Update: I'm a year in, and I still have no idea what the hell I'm doing].

I've also just moved to Brooklyn, so I'm learning a new neighborhood and I'm trying to avoid getting lost on my bike---much more stressful than getting lost on foot, I've found. I don't like it.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, math, getting lost, reading maps, giving massages, reaching the top shelf.
The first things people usually notice about me
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tall? bald?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Joyce---A Portrait of the Artist As a Young Man; Nabokov---Lolita, Pale Fire; Murakami---The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, Kafka on the Shore, Hard-Boiled Wonderland & The End of the World, 1Q84; Saint-Éxupery---The Little Prince; Deleuze & Guattari---Anti-Œdipus, A Thousand Plateaus; Tolkien---The Silmarillion, The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit; Rowling---All the Harry Potter; Proust---As much of In Search of Lost Time as I've read, it remains a reading in progress; Kierkegaard---Fear and Trembling.

Amélie, My Neigbor Totoro (and almost every other Miyazaki movie), Pan's Labyrinth, Lawrence of Arabia, Lord of the Rings, Paprika, Les Miserables, Hiroshima mon amour, etc etc.

Twin Peaks, The X-Files, sense8, Orphan Black, Person of Interest, The West Wing, (are you seeing a theme yet? please recommend me more conspiracy-oriented shows)

Music: hip-hop, folk rock, indie rock, electronica, trance, rap, soul, Motown, musicals, opera, classical.

favorites among those genres include: wu-tang clan, joanna newsom, the decemberists, ella fitzgerald, the band, bob dylan, james deano, IAM, chuck berry, the beatles, puccini, yeah yeah yeahs, nas, infected mushroom.

Food: cakes, pies, pasta, vinegar, chocolate, tomatoes, barbecue, comfort food (basically anything southern), gnocchi, rice, peaches, chicken. [Update: I finally have a goddamn oven and a gas stove, and I am going a little bit wild with it. If you want me to make you something, I will make you something. It can be a surprise, even!]
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the moon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I should have said yesterday, math, time, depression, kerning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no idea what a typical Friday is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I make a lot of jokes about math.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. want to?'re interested in ethical polyamory (or other names for multiple ethical relationship frameworks).