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23 New York, NY Man, Genderfluid

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I’m looking for

  • Everyone
  • Ages 18–33
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My details

Last online
Jul 28
6′ 6″ (1.98m)
Body Type
Strictly anything
Other, and somewhat serious about it
Cancer, but it doesn’t matter
Working on Ph.D program
Open relationship
Strictly non-monogamous
Likes cats
English (Fluently), French (Okay), Spanish (Okay)
My self-summary
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Strange genderfluid weirdo. A little bit cool, a little bit freaky.

I love the moon more than everything else.

I am in a non-hierarchical polyamorous relationship with another lovely grad student in the city. I'm not even remotely looking for monogamy or exclusivity or anything of that nature. If you're interested in what poly means for me, or what it might mean for you, or what it might mean in general, let me know! I love talking about poly things, and finding out new ways that people do it.

I really like math, and fonts, and hip hop, and opera, and poetry, and getting lost. I don't know how to describe myself, and I don't know if I wish I did.

I speak in analogies, and I like to be confused.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm doing the grad school thing at the moment---I've just started a PhD in math at CUNY. I'm figuring out how to live here, figuring out what I like to do, and trying to meet fun and interesting new people.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
listening, math, getting lost, reading maps, giving massages, calligraphy.
The first things people usually notice about me
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tall? bald?
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Joyce---A Portrait of the Artist As a Young Man; Nabokov---Lolita, Pale Fire; Murakami---The Wind-Up Bird Chronicle, Kafka on the Shore, Hard-Boiled Wonderland & The End of the World; Saint-Éxupery---The Little Prince; Deleuze & Guattari---Anti-Œdipus, A Thousand Plateaus; Tolkien---The Silmarillion, The Lord of the Rings, The Hobbit; Rowling---All the Harry Potter; Proust---As much of In Search of Lost Time as I've read, it remains a reading in progress; Kierkegaard---Fear and Trembling.

Amélie, My Neigbor Totoro (and almost every other Miyazaki movie), Pan's Labyrinth, Lawrence of Arabia, Lord of the Rings, Paprika Les Miserables, Hiroshima mon amour, etc etc.

Twin Peaks, The X-Files, sense8, Orphan Black, Person of Interest (are you seeing a theme yet? please recommend me more conspiracy-oriented shows)

Music: hip-hop, folk rock, indie rock, electronica, trance, rap, soul, Motown, musicals, opera, classical.

favorites among those genres include: wu-tang clan, joanna newsom, the decemberists, ella fitzgerald, the band, bob dylan, james deano, IAM, chuck berry, the beatles, puccini, yeah yeah yeahs, nas, infected mushroom.

Food: cakes, pies, pasta, vinegar, chocolate, tomatoes, barbecue, comfort food (basically anything southern), gnocchi, rice, peaches, chicken.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
the moon
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
What I should have said yesterday, math, time, depression, kerning.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
I have no idea what a typical Friday is.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I make a lot of jokes about math.
You should message me if
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