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45 New York, NY Man


I’m looking for

  • Men
  • Ages 35–45
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating

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Last Online
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5′ 10″ (1.78m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Other, and laughing about it
Leo, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from masters program
Entertainment / Media
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, and doesn’t want any
Likes dogs

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My self-summary
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Here's the thing about me, I'm pretty awesome. I grew up in Salt Lake City, and yes I was a Mormon (technically I still am I guess). I have been lucky enough to work my entire adult life in and around the costume design career I chose. I've worked my butt off to get here and 98% of the time these days I am happy with where I am. That doesn't stop me from wanting more and always ambitiously working for the "what's next"? in my life. I live to learn I suppose. I have a lot of shoes. I make myself shirts when I'm bored. I'm not sure I have a type except to say that I like people who are sure of themselves and have a drive of their own. I find these days that there really ARE great things that I'd like to share with a partner and lover. I have a great related family (back west) and a great chosen family here in NYC amongst friends.
What I’m doing with my life
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I'm enjoying it. I like working... I really do.
I’m really good at
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tailoring.... years of doing it. I sometimes wish I could take off 8-10 years and go apprentice in Italy before the art form dies. I also tell pretty great stories and most of them are true.
The first things people usually notice about me
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my impeccable attire. my shoes.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Books: I don't find the time to read as much as I used to but I'm in the middle of The Passage trilogy right now. I tend to read more Fiction than non. I still haven't managed to get through Schiff's Cleopatra: A Life there are a LOT of Ptolemy's to keep track of.

Movies: Soapdish, The Lion in Winter, Clueless, Big Business, Victor Victoria, The American President, Weird Science....this could go on forever... I try to see a movie a week (occupational hazard)

Shows: The West Wing (best t.v. ever and I still watch it start to finish once a year) I watch a LOT of t.v. (occupational hazard) I'm kind of obsessed with Hoarders.

Music: all over the map: a typical playlist could be: Gaga, Rye Rye, Kylie, Robyn, Scissor Sisters, Rihanna, Erasure, etc. I try to keep current and have a LOT of old school 80's, and of course the prerequisite Broadway showtunes so I can keep "the card".

Food: I've never met a food I haven't liked. oh wait... I could do without jello (childhood trauma)
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
my iphone (trite, but the group text is the best thing ever invented)
my best friend and business partner
a dirty martini
passionate kisses
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
honestly.... I spend a lot of time thinking about what is next in the career path, how to get there, and what will be the next job... (not in a panicked way)
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
going out for a drink and catching up with good friends.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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sometimes when I'm feeling blue I hold my Emmy award... seriously. Yes I will let you hold it too.
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you're awesome too and you have never been on America's Most Wanted.

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