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31 Brooklyn, NY Man


I’m looking for

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  • Ages 27–35
  • Near me
  • For long-term dating, short-term dating, casual sex

My Details

Last Online
Dec 10
5′ 8″ (1.72m)
Body Type
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Likes dogs and has cats
English, Japanese (Fluently)

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What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
Bike activist, sustainability advocate, circus performer, vaudeville stage manager, aikidoist, booty-shaking dancer. Brass band enthusiast. Shield maiden of the Oxford comma. Impresario of the Super Fun Variety Show. And with a day job in community affairs.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
dancing till everyone in the place feels giddy, making folks laugh, helping people feel supported, gutting your water-logged house, knowing how to make your insane art performance go off seamlessly, making out, having excellent conversations, knowing someone in whatever room I end up walking into, singing songs.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Cloud Atlas, The Thin Man, The Dispossessed, Hark! A Vagrant, The History of Love, The Stranger, The Iliad, those awesome Joss Whedon X-Men comics, Bel Canto, The Night Circus, Zen and the Art of Motorcycle Maintenance, more and more and more.

Charlie Chaplin films, the Thin Man, Cat on a Hot Tin Roof, Totoro, Tampopo, Willow, lots and lots and lots.

Arrested Development, Treme, the Muppet Show, Louie.

Music is a giant mixed bag full of awesomeness. A Slavic Soul Party LP is playing as I type this; before that it was Talking Heads, Tribe Called Quest, Louis Armstrong, Fela, more and more. Recent great shows I went to (excluding friends' bands) were Kermit Ruffins, the Magnetic Fields, Little Feat, and the Preservation Hall Jazz Band. Plus lots of dance and circus.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
My sister, cats, New Orleans, volunteering and organizing, green spaces, dancing, and bikes. (It's seven things, not six, meh.)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Helping other artists make art; helping archists and anarchists speak the same language about things like public spaces and sustainability; evenly matching my grandmother at Backgammon.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
overcommitted and happy and all over town... a warehouse party here, a planning meeting there, an all-night awesome something somewhere, and me on a bike zipping from one to the other to the other.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I was in a Charmin toilet paper commercial as a child, in which after running away to the candy store, I deliver the line "why is your toilet paper so scraaaaatchy?" to the candy store owner. This is what causes my character to return home. The commercial was never aired.
You should message me if
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You like bikes, are quirky and great, and want to go have a fun time somewhere weird and warm and amazing