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I’m looking for

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  • Ages 35-48
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

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Last online
Today – 11:38am
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4' 11" (1.50m)
Body Type
Judaism but it’s not important
Doesn’t have kids but wants them
Has cats
My self-summary
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I am not afraid of spiders. I am the worst frisbee player the world has ever seen, but I love to play. Seasonally-appropriate beer makes me happy. Pine nuts are vile, but I've never met an avocado I didn't like. I think people who use "LOL" really need to earn it. I live in Manhattan but have Brooklyn envy. Dreaming of a time where a log cabin in the woods might replace my city living altogether, but taking major advantage of living here now.

I have no problem jumping into a pile of leaves or a pond, because I'm the last person to worry about my hair or whether my mascara is running. I'm also pretty fearless when it comes to new or challenging situations. My family and friends mean the world to me. I'm happy in my own skin, and feel incredibly lucky to have the life I have.

Not into saying "I" this much.
What I’m doing with my life
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I have an incredible job as a facilitator in a financial markets company, and am in parallel pursuing musical theater as a lifelong goal. I'm also considering a return to school for veterinary medicine. Ya know. Like you do.

What else. I volunteer with NY Cares. I find any excuse to be outside, particularly in the fall. I see plays and musicals and concerts. I just bought a bike and am busily planning my Central Park routes. I am trying to learn to cook. I am trying not to burn down my apartment while trying to learn to cook.

I'm an aunt. My niece is super, and we get along well because she is not intimidated by my towering stature.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Creating great leaf piles for jumping purposes
- Pivot tables
- Dog, cat and wildlife whispering
- Making friends with children
- Getting lost in foreign countries and being excited about it
The first things people usually notice about me
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I'm a shrimp.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
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Oh, so very many. The weepies, fleet foxes, aaron copland, the beatles, brahms, buddy holly, johnny cash, allison krauss, simon & garfunkel, civil wars, wailing jennys, leonard bernstein, harry potter, David McCullough, To Kill A Mockingbird, Jane Eyre, Amelie, Wall-E, Annie Hall, Homeland, Friday Night Lights, House of Cards, Mad Men, Silicon Valley, PBS, NPR, history channel, animal planet. And so many more.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
1. my family (not "a thing", I know)
2. GPS
3. soda stream
4. my grandma's recipe collection
5. coffee
6. animals
6. trees to chill under
6. great theater
6. possibility
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
Why are car pictures and selfies such a thing? And dudes holding up dead fish? What's the draw here?
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not sitting in front of this computer
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once poured vegetable oil over a mouse to rescue him from a sticky trap. It was a successful mission, and I'm sure he is living a long and happy life in someone else's kitchen.

Also - I'm pretty independent and I have a hard time asking people for help. This can be a good thing, but when I am in a Food Emporium trying to reach a box of Nilla Wafers on the high shelf - not so much. I think those clowns are still talking about the time that the short girl literally took down an entire shelf of snack products and twisted her ankle in the process, just to get a damn box of nilla wafers.

Lastly, James Taylor sometimes comes up on my Simon and Garfunkel pandora station, and I don't always skip him.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are any of the following: creative, passionate, artistic, musical, funny, geeky, outdoorsy, kind to other people, kind to animals, not afraid of getting dirty, and/or contribute in some cool way to the universe and to others.

I'm looking for something special. One night stands are not really my speed. That said - I'm also not a big fan of emailing back and forth for weeks and weeks, so if you think we might enjoy our mutual company, hit me up and let's hang out. Also, I'm not shy about emailing first if I think a profile is cool. So, there's that.

No smokers please. And if you hunt animals for the fun of it, we probably won't get along.