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38 F New York, NY

I’m looking for

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  • Ages 34–46
  • Near me
  • Who are single
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

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Today – 4:51am
4′ 11″ (1.50m)
Body Type
Judaism, but not too serious about it
Pisces, and it’s fun to think about
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs and has cats

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My self-summary
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I am not afraid of spiders. I am the worst frisbee player the world has ever seen, but I love to play. Seasonally-appropriate beer makes me happy. Pine nuts are vile, but I've never met an avocado I didn't like. I get lost everywhere I go, and use GPS on an almost daily basis. Chopsticks continue to challenge me, but I'm working on it. I live in Manhattan but have major Brooklyn envy. Also considering a time where a log cabin in the woods might replace my city living altogether.

The good news is that I have no problem jumping into a pile of leaves or a pond, because I'm the last person to worry about my hair or whether my mascara is running. I'm also pretty fearless when it comes to new or challenging situations. I'm driven, I like challenge. I'm happy in my own skin, and feel incredibly lucky to have the life I have.

I usually don't say "I" this much.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I have an awesome day job as a teacher in a financial markets company, and am in parallel pursuing musical theater as a lifelong goal. I'm also considering a return to school for veterinary medicine. Ya know. Like you do.

What else. I volunteer with NY Cares and ASPCA. I find any excuse to be outside. I am trying to learn to cook. I am trying not to burn down my apartment while trying to learn to cook.

I also just became an aunt. My niece is the cutest thing that ever lived. We get along really well, because she is not intimidated by my towering stature.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
- Creating great leaf piles for jumping purposes
- Pivot tables
- Dog, cat and wildlife animal whispering
- Choosing the right font type for any occasion
- Making friends with children
- Taste testing stouts
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I'm a shrimp.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
Oh, so very many. The weepies, fleet foxes, aaron copland, the beatles, brahms, buddy holly, johnny cash, allison krauss, simon & garfunkel, civil wars, wailing jennys, leonard bernstein, harry potter, murakami, David McCullough, To Kill A Mockingbird, Jane Eyre, Once, Amelie, Wall-E, Annie Hall, Homeland, Friday Night Lights, House of Cards, Mad Men, The Wire, PBS, NPR, history channel, animal planet.
My official favorite restaurant in NYC has just become Brooklyn's own "Franny's". If you haven't been - hasten. Game changer.
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
I won't be tied down to 6, okcupid.
my family
soda stream
chocolate egg creams
my grandma's recipe collection
rocks to climb
trees to chill under
great theater
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what to write in this little box, apparently.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
not sitting in front of this computer
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
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I once poured vegetable oil over a mouse to rescue him from a sticky trap. It was a successful mission, and I'm sure he is living a long and happy life in someone else's kitchen.

Also - I'm pretty independent and I have a hard time asking people for help. This can be a good thing, but when I am in a Food Emporium trying to reach a box of Nilla Wafers on the high shelf - not so much. I think those clowns are still talking about the time that the short girl literally took down an entire shelf of snack products and twisted her ankle in the process, just to get a damn box of nilla wafers.

Lastly, James Taylor sometimes comes up on my Simon and Garfunkel pandora station, and I don't always skip him.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over. are any of the following: creative, passionate, artistic, musical, funny, geeky, outdoorsy, kind to other people, kind to animals, not afraid of getting dirty, and/or contribute in some cool way to the universe and to others.
Also - I'm not a big fan of emailing back and forth for weeks, so if you think we might enjoy our mutual company, hit me up and let's hang out.