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37 M New York, NY

I’m looking for

  • Straight girls only
  • Ages 23–40
  • Located anywhere
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Online now!
5′ 11″ (1.81m)
Body Type
Gemini, but it doesn’t matter
Graduated from university
Art / Music / Writing
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but wants them
Likes dogs
English (Fluently)

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My self-summary
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Summarized stalking material:
@Joshuabrown, from Knoxville, recently bought a house in the Hudson Valley, coonhound dad, photographer/filmmaker, 5 siblings (4 adopted), centrist, INFJ, passport stamper, water hole finder, healthy eater/cook

Here are some more snippets for the rest of you:

-I'm on OKCupid because I would like to be in a relationship. Someday I'd like to have a kid that isn't a dog. You're not going to find me in a bar and I work for myself, so I'm a little hard to find in real life.

-Here's my disclaimer for some of you. I lived in Manhattan for 9 years, but I decided enough was enough and bought a big old house house in the Hudson Valley. So I'm an hour north, and I come down regularly for clients, dates, and friend dinners. There aren't many opportunities for dating up here, so thats why I keep my location on OKCupid as NYC. I'm working towards having an apartment in the city and the house up here

-I look at every single day. Now that I have bought a house in the Hudson Valley, the next step is building a small off the grid cabin. Followed by a cabana in Tulum and an apartment in Italy before I'm 50.

-my personality type is literally the rarest. luckily for you, I come with an instruction manual. are some of the highlights for those too busy to read it.

I'm extremely self-aware
I'm extremely opinionated
I feel things deeply
I have a near sixth sense for reading people
I think and communicate symbolically
I get very passionate about things I believe in
I am extremely loyal
I need time to myself for deep thought
I'm very difficult to read unless I really trust you
I hate arguing
I'm often misunderstood
I'm gentle
I can be a perfectionist
I share my feelings freely one on one

-Photography is all I've ever known. I started in the pre-Instagram age of darkrooms and film at the age of 14 and I've never done much else. My money comes from photographing very expensive weddings all over the world and sometimes getting a little jealous of the love I document

-Peekamoose swimming hole and Lake Awosting are my two favorite swimming spots. I'll take you anytime.

-i am interested in feminine, confident, ambitious, opinionated, educated, self aware, curious women. I am not interested in masculine, busyholic, dominant controllers looking for a quiet guy to balance them. I'm introverted, but not shy or passive AT ALL. I have a whole lot of opinions and ambition. I'm looking for a partner that might help me grow in ways I haven't and vice versa. I believe in working efficiently, choosing my friends wisely, and savoring my experiences so that I don't have to fill my calendar to feel fulfilled and accomplished. the main thing that introvert means for you is that I strongly prefer one on one time to one on 20 time. I have a hard time being attracted to native new york personality types (hard on the outside, sarcastic, neurotic, loud)
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
finding secret swimming holes, house renovating, spending off days with my nephew, checking in with grandma, learning how to cook more vegetables,
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
cooking without recipes
keeping my blood pressure low
nephew adventures
making hipster approved playlists
hammock sleeping
fly fishing
tulum camping
The first things people usually notice about me
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I have big ideas
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
quiet by susan cain is my current read

I go see a movie a week. Sometimes I drive up to the drive-in at Hyde Park, sometimes its Alamo theater, or my rooftop, but I'm a sucker for beautiful cinematography, documentaries, hitchcock, malick, kurosawa, and the occasional blockbuster.

from my latest playlist:
the chromatics, otis redding, waylon jennings, father john misty, M83, Phosphorescent, blood orange, jack white, so so glos, alt j, muddy waters, clem snide,

I love food and lists so much that I create custom google maps for my friends and family when they come to town.

recent additions to that list

hangawi-amazing koreatown vegetarian
flat top-new spot near Columbia
pulqueria-underground mexican in chinatown
pylos-favorite greek
maysville-favorite southern
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
rivers, lakes, beaches, ponds, creeks, and my camera
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
what it would be like to live in Italy full time
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
probably working on my house for the next few...rescue me!
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You are kind.

You have opinions on things that matter.

You would like to explore the Hudson Vally and Catskills with me.

You'll let me cook for you.

You may or may not be "creative" but you can appreciate creativity and art.