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40 • Elmira, NY • Man
I’m looking for
- Ages 25–49
- Located anywhere
- Who are single
- For new friends, casual sex
- Last online
- Today – 12:37am
- 5′ 10″ (1.78m)
- Body type
- Mostly anything
- Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
- Leo, but it doesn’t matter
- Dropped out of masters program
- Mostly non-monogamous
- Doesn’t have kids
- Likes dogs and likes cats
- English (Fluently), French (Okay)
I am on the back foot here, y'all. If you read all the way down (and note what I'm Looking For, just to the right there --->) you'll recognize I'm very direct (if rarely crass). Getting a "Match" notice doesn't tell me that you've actually read my profile, so please, if you have read it, go ahead and have the cojones to write me first. Only you can tell if I'm your cup of tea.
List of the best "suggested qualities" I've read on people's profiles:
Genuinely like women
Critical yet tolerant of others
You're a [...] straight guy who examines his privilege every goddamn day
Myers-Briggs type: STFU
Hang up, NOW.
Oh, sorry, did you say could NEVER do without?
NOT that I am complaining.
It says "willing to admit:" don't be cute/coy - this is an opportunity to show how clever you are, people, not the Inquisition. If you're only willing to admit that you played with electrical outlets as a child and have the mature sexual predilections to prove it, say that.
What's that you say? I've conveniently managed to avoid answering the question?
Oh, well, that's easy: I did ballet as a kid. Yup, and I'm a Marine. I'm sure you can square that somehow.
*I am non-monogamous and expect that anyone who contacts me will be accepting of that.*
*I am not looking for anything romantic; what is most natural to me is to have friends whom I fuck but care about deeply. This generally means I don't do one-time things.*
*I am purely self-taught - and I mean that; this is shit I've long considered and is the product of serious introspection - as someone who practices what I guess is (somewhat ridiculously) called "ethical non-monogamy." I enjoy engaging on the topic with people who are more experienced with or better educated about it.*
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