Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
I've found that I function better in a relationship than single. To
that end, I'd really like to meet someone with whom I can share my
life with without feeling I have to give up who I am and without
feeling they are changing merely to please me. I'm ready for that
life-long commitment thingy that "they" keep talking about, but I
know that I can only sustain that with someone who wholly turns me
on, physically, intellectually and emotionally. Otherwise, I'll go
into it with a foot already out the door. And that sucks for all
I've been in Asheville (originally from Northern climes) for four
years now and have carved out a nice little life for myself and I'd
love to find a partner to share that with.
It's difficult to find someone you gel with based on a profile like
this, but I've been thinking a lot lately about the malleability of
people and how people attract people and then create shared
That all said, I like to laugh. It would be nice to meet someone
who understands what I mean when I say that EVERYTHING is funny. I
think laughing together is the most romantic a couple can be.
I like a woman in tune with her sexuality to the point that she
doesn't have to wear it on her sleeve. Pretense in general is a
HUGE turn-off. If you have to tell me how whacky you are, I'm going
to give you that look. Oh, you know the one... Well, you will
if/when you see it.
I like people who are honest about themselves with themselves and
everybody else. Yes, two people in a relationship are going to
change each other to some degree, but I stand up for what I stand
for and appreciate others who do the same. A common phrase of yours
should be "I don't care what people think, I..." See what I'm
You should be willing to argue (I actually like arguing). "I don't
want to talk about it," drives me crazy. I can be respectful of
anyone's feelings if they can be respectful of my thinkings. :) I'm
not talking about fighting, but I love passionate discussion.
I'm smart. Like, smart smart. I don't wear it as a badge, but some
have found this intimidating in the past, so I'm just letting you
TiVo better than TV; Volleyball and softball (playing); baseball
(watching); cinephile, but in trumps out; I like a good restaurant,
but I'm a utilitarian eater; a quiet bar or coffee shop beats a
raucous one; converstaion is my fave hobby.
OK. I'm dropping it here. Let's just say that I am that odd person
who doesn't mind dating, so if you see ANYTHING here you like, we
can do the 5-minute coffee thing and then you can feign other plans
if it's just not happening. But one never knows, does one?
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm very involved in the local theater scene and have my own
company. I primarily direct plays, but I also write and act. Oddly,
this doesn't pay a lot, so I also teach drama to kids, which on
some days is a great joy to me, others a pain in the ass, and yet
others merely a way to absorb germs from the little petri dishes
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile. That I look like Tony Danza. My enormous breasts.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
...what I'd like to be when I grow up.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Most often lately I am at the theater. If not overseeing a show I'm
working on, then attending another production. I love my theater
peoples, watching the work they are proud of and heading out for a
beer after the show.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I am a misanthrope. I do like a person, but I'm none too keen on
You should message me if
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...you actually look like your profile pictures.
...your primary profile picture is of you. Not your tattoos, not
you with a mask or face paint on... YOU!
...you're not gonna be all weird about it.
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