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jcd1082

27 / M / straight / Seeing someone

Coronado, California

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Ethnicity
Asian, Middle Eastern, Black, Native American, Indian, Pacific Islander, Hispanic / Latin, White, Other, Undeclared
Height
5' 9" (1.75m).
Body Type
Looking For
New friends, Activity partners
Smokes
No
Drinks
Rarely
Drugs
Religion
Sign
Libra but it doesn’t matter
Education
Graduated from college/university
Job
Entertainment / Media
Income
$30,000–$40,000
Kids
Pets
Owns dogs and Likes cats
Languages
English (Fluently), C++ (Poorly), French (Poorly)

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I am quirky, quietish, and quixotic.

My Self-Summary

I'm a dork, a nerd--I have a sock tan and I look pretty ridiculous bare footed or in sandals.

What I'm after from a person depends 100% on the person I'm interacting with so it's worth asking. I figure out what I want from someone pretty quickly and I am compelled to answer questions both bluntly and honestly. I have never been that good at the whole interaction thing, but I usually mean well.

What I’m doing with my life

Just getting started on the whole job thing, not doing anything with accounting (the degree), amazingly, but starting out at a Game company. Who knew? It's fun, I dig my work, and I make lousy money. Hmm, the lousy money part probably isn't something I should advertise. I need to spin it with something, like "has prospects!." I'm not in marketing for a reason.

I’m really good at

I used to have a sarcastic little bit here about how I am good at everything I try, but I don't really think it worked. I don't really like the question, I hate talking myself up, it feels rude - really this question just makes me think about the things I'm not good at. I prefer to enjoy my life without this kind of reflection.

The first things people usually notice about me

Oh well it beats the shit out of me. I mean how should I know, I'm not other people! This question is confusing.

I do kind of wish I could meet myself, you know? Like be someone else and then meet me. Then I could probably answer that question, which would be like icing on the meeting-me cake.

My favorite books, movies, music, and food

Science fiction and fantasy take up the bulk of my books and a lot of my movies as well. I'm a big fan of comedy and action and really cinema in general--I like going to movies, especially with friends and family. Food, I am a kind of difficult eater.

The six things I could never do without

Most of them are probably lodged somewhere in my body and the others are simple things like food, water and air. Really, I can live without most physical objects. I would find it difficult to live without the people I care for, but I'm not sure it would be impossible. Like being trapped alone (with food and water) on a desert island would suck, but I'm not sure I would have to fashion a beach ball man to talk to. And possibly have sex with. Hmmmmm. Maybe it should be a beach ball woman.

I spend a lot of time thinking about

I don't really think a lot. I guess that makes me seem stupid, but really, I don't feel like there are a lot of active thoughts running around in my brain. I like to think that there is some piece of me which is thinking though, I just don't notice it happening. So what I am getting at here is that I am reeeaaaaally deep. I'm as deep as something which is very deep indeed. That is to say, deep.

On a typical Friday night I am

Inside somewhere, probably reading or on a computer. I might have mentioned that I'm a geek?

The most private thing I’m willing to admit here

Has probably been written or checked off in a test question somewhere.

You should message me if

You have a pulse and a brain. Seriously, I don't discriminate in who I talk to or who I'm friends with. I don't have a laundry list of traits I'm looking for. Whether I get along with someone is entirely dependent on an unpredictable set of factors.