jcosmo
29 Naples, FL
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My self-summary
I am a timeless presence (so are you!) becoming aware of what exists behind the ego. How I used to define myself:

I'm short, Jewish, born in England but moved before I got an accent :(, a twin (but not identical). I prefer solitary or small group activities to big crowds and social events. I'm into X-Files, astral projection, alternative medicine, Tarot, painting, jewelry-making, planting seeds, reiki, the beach, the park, costumes, music, androgyny, flea markets and thrift stores, Rocky Horror, drag, Disney movies, racquetball, made-up sports and games, having long hair, going to the beach at night wearing glow-in-the-dark paint, psychology, spirituality, intense human connection, being nice, meeting nice people, and the pursuit of spiritual experiences and other new, interesting experiences.

All of it still applies, but I'm coming to recognize that none of these things define me.

(I've been away from OKCupid for a long time. I haven't been ignoring messages intentionally - just forgot I had a profile here!)

Please note: If you message just to say "Hey" or "Hi ," the most I'm going to say back is "Hello" because there's nothing to reply to!
What I’m doing with my life
Living.

Singing 1950's love songs in the shower.

Figuring out what it means to be an RN without patients, working in an office, teaching doctors and nurses and office managers how to use software.

Trying to outrun myself.

Jumping over the moon.

Spending time I don't have on art. (Current projects are watercolors and chainmaille.)

Posting pictures of my cats on Facebook.

Planting more seeds than I have room for in the front or back yard.
I’m really good at
Getting myself into awkward situtations.
The first things people usually notice about me
Probably my height. I'm rather short.

(Seriously. Don't be surprised when we meet.)
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Movies: Pi, Memento, Fight Club, Edward Scissorhands, Big Fish, Batman Begins, The Exorcist, Disney movies.

Shows: X-Files, SUPERNATURAL!!!, The Office, Archer, Deathnote, Hannibal, House, I Dream of Jeannie, Bewitched, Merlin, Twin Peaks.

Books: The Power of Now and A New Earth (Eckhart Tolle), House of Leaves (Danielewski), Catch-22 (Heller), A Clockwork Orange (Burgess), Venus in Furs (Sacher-Masoch), Illusions (Bach), Anne Rice's 'Vampire Chronicles' series, anything by Chuck Palahniuk, Astral Dynamics (Robert Bruce), Demian (Hesse), American Psycho (Ellis), One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest (Kesey), Kafka's short stories.

Music: Deftones, Tool, A Perfect Circle, Prodigy, Collide, Fischerspooner, Bush, Burial, Garbage, Radiohead, Orgy, Nine Inch Nails, The Pixies, Coldplay, U2, Pink Floyd, Nirvana, Dave Navarro, Bauhaus, Team Sleep, Depeche Mode, Sisters of Mercy, IAMX, Red Hot Chili Peppers, Sneaker Pimps, Massive Attack, Matisyahu, Telefon Tel Aviv, Panty Raid, Savage Garden, Boards of Canada, Tycho, Phaeleh, Adeptus, Team Sleep... anything that sounds good.

Food: I'm vegetarian, occasionally raw vegan (raw fruits, vegetables, nuts, and seeds). I cook by the smoke detector. When it goes off, I know it was done 20 minutes ago.
The six things I could never do without
Oxygen, REM sleep, the beach, music, water, cats.
I spend a lot of time thinking about
I'm trying to spend less time thinking, period. (Read "The Power of Now" if that doesn't make sense.)

My cats, places I'd rather be, last night's dreams, things I don't understand, the future, patterns, music, my to-do list.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
My license says M. My birth certificate says F.
You should message me if
you are open, interesting, nice, adventurous, unusual, looking for a human connection, OK with polyamory/non-monogamy, real, and not looking for sex.

(Serious about not looking for sex. I'm asexual.)

Do NOT message me if you are homophobic, transphobic, anti-Semitic, racist, sexist, or closed-minded.
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