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34 M San Francisco, CA

My Details

Last Online
Jul 27
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Open relationship
Relationship Type
Mostly non-monogamous
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Say 'hello' and come along and stop browsing, the world is not inside a computer.

Am I going to say something witty and distinctive from your other messages, probably not, since I would need to know you better. How do you meet people in the real world, you say hello, chat a bit, then exchange numbers and keep in contact, or through friends. If you're trying okcupid you're probably trying to expand your options. So you might not want to answer all the messages you get, but 'hello my name is ...' works in the real world and I don't think a dating site should be that different.

Things I like to do: happy hours, going to shows, eating out, trying something new, the outdoors, snowboarding, cycling, running, yoga, climbing, hiking, camping, backpacking, beer tasting, wine tasting, cooking, dancing (salsa, bachatta, dancehall), surfing, scuba diving, road trips, traveling, exploring, talking about interesting topics, reading, partying, relaxing, festivals, and lots of sex.

I'm a happy, enthusiastic and generally positive person, I have a good life. I'm a successful, talkative and fun software engineer. I laugh, play/have fun, am emotionally mature, have a good IQ & EQ. I'm an alpha male, with a caring heart, a flirtatiously young, affectionate, very sexual, giving, bold, upfront, healthy, active, go with the flow spontaneous, open-minded, and HONEST. I’m a balanced introvert/extrovert of sorts, I/ENTP.

I choose to live, be present to life and enjoy it, while taking care of things and looking ahead. I like exploring, learning, finding the greatness in life's little things, having my heart race, feeling passion for life and it’s moments, discovering, growing and evolving to a better version.

Staying safe by never going outside of your comfort zone, by never taking risks, is the riskiest thing you can do. Don't strategize for goals, achievements or focus so intently on what you can get; start enjoying the moments, the play, the risks, the discomfort and challenges and let go of the fears that freeze you and just start savoring.
What I’m doing with my life
Learning about myself, growing, expanding, living by desire, staying fit, I also like going out to the city and enjoying its nightlife, good food and friends.

Things I like to do: have intelligent conversations, go dance Latin music, the outdoors (hiking, camping, backpacking, snowboarding), exercise (running, cycling, yoga, and the gym), I love learning new things, listen to all types of music, I love traveling (come with me). I like trying out new things, if you have something fun for me to try show me I like a challenge.
I’m really good at
Being direct with my desires, following my missions and goals, communicating, listening, giving you the opportunity for you to tell me what you really desire, giving full approval to be you, having confidence, being happy, really connecting with you, feeling you when others don’t, getting deep and being lively.
The first things people usually notice about me
My smile, curly hair, my genuine conversations and my positive outlook.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
I'll just name a few things of the top of my head

The way of the Superior Man, 1984, The Mote in God's Eye, Ender's Games, ...

The Matrix, There's something about Mary, Blade Runner, ...

Family Guy, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire

So many genres you should see my Pandora list it depends on my mood, hip-hop, Latin, rock, classical, dubstep, reggae, ...

I love all type of international foods
The six things I could never do without
- the closest people to me (my family and close friends)
- traveling & adventure
- music, it moves, relaxes, brings memories and motivates me
- good food, beers or coffee with friends
- sunny days outdoors
- sex & a bit of mischief ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
How I can grow, how to make my goals come true, how to find happiness and bring happiness, sex, how the Universe works, where I'm going to go out to eat, where is my next vacation will be, my daydreams, what new fun activity or adventure to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Going out with friends, going out to dinner, dancing, planning absolute world conquest.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an open book just ask or I’m sure I’ll bring it up at some point.
I’m looking for
  • Girls who like guys
  • Ages 22–35
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating
You should message me if
You feel inclined and feel like we have some things in common, you're healthy, fit, in good shape intelligent and wants to meet someone to have fun, explore, and feel close and connected. I'm looking for a friend, an activity partner, a lover, all in one. A woman that knows her real desires or wants to explore them, can speak the truth and can tell me what she wants, is sexual and expresses when she wants it or doesn't, can call me out on my bullshit when I'm subconsciously doing it (we all do it, and I’ll point yours out too). A woman that can get dressed up (sexy/dressy) or down (sweats/shorts); She enjoys the outdoors or restaurant, likes to relax, have fun, be silly.

The type of relationships that work for me are non-traditional. I'm not looking for random hookups. I'm ultimately desire for a long term relationship, for a true connection, a woman that wants to learn, play and grow together, a woman that can look at a relationship as a way to grow rather than as a way to fill a void. I think designing it to what works for us is better than follow the de-facto standards of how it should be.
I value our independence, yet would like something that could grow; life is also too short to worry about every little single thing so I'm down to keep it light, fun and short or deep depending on how things flow.