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35 San Francisco, CA Man


I’m looking for

  • Women
  • Ages 22–40
  • Near me
  • For new friends, long-term dating, short-term dating

My Details

Last Online
Today – 7:51am
Hispanic / Latin
5′ 11″ (1.80m)
Body Type
Mostly anything
Agnosticism, but not too serious about it
Graduated from university
Science / Engineering
Rather not say
Relationship Status
Relationship Type
Doesn’t have kids, but might want them
Likes dogs and likes cats
English (Fluently), Spanish (Fluently), Portuguese (Okay)

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My self-summary
Write a little about yourself. Just a paragraph will do.
Don't be afraid to say 'hello', works better than liking me which I don't get notifications about. Also read my 'message me if' portion, I spent time on this for a reason.

I'm a happy, enthusiastic and generally positive person, I have a good life. I'm a successful, talkative and fun software engineer. I'm an open book and communicative. I laugh, play/have fun, am emotionally mature, have a good IQ & EQ. I'm an alpha male, with a caring heart, flirtatiously young, affectionate, very sexual, giving, bold, upfront, healthy, active, go with the flow spontaneous, and open-minded. I’m a balanced introvert/extrovert of sorts, I/ENTP.

I choose to live, be present to life and enjoy it, while taking care of things and looking ahead. I like exploring, learning, finding the greatness in life's little things, having my heart race, feeling passion for life and it’s moments, discovering, growing and evolving to a better version.

Staying safe by never going outside of your comfort zone, by never taking risks, is the riskiest thing you can do. Don't strategize for goals, achievements or focus so intently on what you can get; start enjoying the moments, the play, the risks, the discomfort and challenges and let go of the fears that freeze you and just start savoring.
What I’m doing with my life
Don’t overthink this one; tell us what you’re doing day-to-day.
I'm figuring out my next move in life with relation to work or starting my own business. Learning about myself, growing, expanding, living by desire, staying fit.

Things I like to do in no particular order: going out with friends to eat or have drinks, going to shows, trying new things, having intelligent conversations, dancing (salsa, bachatta, dancehall), beer tasting, wine tasting, cooking, the outdoors (hiking, camping, backpacking, snowboarding, surfing, scuba diving, road trips), exercise (running, cycling, yoga, and the gym), listen to all types of music, I love traveling (come with me). reading, partying, relaxing, festivals, and lots of sex. If you have something fun for me to try show me I like a challenge.
I’m really good at
Go on, brag a little (or a lot). We won’t judge.
Being direct, communicating, listening, giving you the opportunity for you to tell me what you really desire, giving full approval to be you, having confidence, being happy.
I'm a smart ass about a lot of things but I've learned to drop sounding like I know everything.
Cooking, I'm pretty good but most times I order out or make a sandwich.
I'm a very easy person to talk to.
Kicking ass and taking names.
Sex without a doubt has to be one if my favorite hobbies and I'm good cause I'm attentive and a giver and like taking charge.
I'm creative and have a fun, interesting and weird view of the world.
I'm super eclectic.
The first things people usually notice about me
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
My smile, happiness, curly hair, my genuine conversations and my positive outlook.
Favorite books, movies, shows, music, and food
Help your potential matches find common interests.
I'll just name a few things of the top of my head

The way of the Superior Man, 1984, The Mote in God's Eye, Ender's Games, ...

The Matrix, There's something about Mary, Blade Runner, ...

Family Guy, The Walking Dead, Game of Thrones, Boardwalk Empire

So many genres you should see my Pandora list it depends on my mood, hip-hop, Latin, rock, classical, dubstep, reggae, ...

I love all type of international foods
The six things I could never do without
Think outside the box. Sometimes the little things can say a lot.
- the closest people to me (my family and close friends)
- traveling & adventure
- music, it moves, relaxes, brings memories and motivates me
- good food, beers or coffee with friends
- sunny days outdoors
- sex & a bit of mischief ;-)
I spend a lot of time thinking about
Global warming, lunch, or your next vacation… it’s all fair game.
How I can grow, how to make my goals come true, sex, how the Universe works, where to go out to eat, where my next vacation will be, my daydreams, what new fun activity or adventure to do.
On a typical Friday night I am
Netflix and takeout, or getting your party on — how do you let loose?
Going out with friends, going out to dinner, dancing, planning absolute world conquest.
The most private thing I’m willing to admit
I’m an empty essay… fill me out!
I’m an open book just ask or I’m sure I’ll bring it up at some point.
You should message me if
Offer a few tips to help matches win you over.
You match me on my relationship spectrum. Committed or playful non-monogamous, open relationship, polyish, curious, honest. You're looking for a primary or a new friend. You're curious or would like to ask me something about it. You feel inclined and feel like we have things in common, you're healthy, fit, take care of your body, intelligent, and emotionally mature and want to meet someone to have fun, explore the city and beyond, and would like to feel close and connected. I'm looking for a friend, an activity partner, an amazing lover, all in one. (It's hard to find) A woman that knows her real desires or wants to explore them, can speak the truth and can tell me what she wants, is sexual and expresses when she wants it or doesn't, can call me out on my bullshit when I'm subconsciously doing it (we all do it, and I’ll point yours out too). A woman that can get dressed up (sexy/dressy) or down (sweats/shorts); She enjoys the outdoors and fine restaurants, likes to relax, have fun, be silly.

The type of relationships that I'm in at this point in time are non-traditional. I desire a deep and long lasting, primary relationship, a woman that wants to learn, play and grow together, a woman that can look at a relationship as a way to grow rather than as a way to fill a void. I think designing it to what works for us is better than follow the de-facto standards of how it should be. I have been in healthy open relationships though I think this can be fluid at different points in life to something more focused. I'm not opposed to having fun and making new friends and lovers.
I value independence, honesty, and I would like something that could grow; life is also too short to worry about every little single thing so I'm down to keep it light, fun and short or deep depending on how things flow.