Don't be afraid to say 'hello', cause it's 2015 I'm looking for you to 'smile across the internet' for me to walk over and say 'hello' and then put my foot in my mouth :-P It works better than liking me, which I don't get notifications about, I'm not on 'A list'. This just makes more sense than demands for a longer message than 'hello. Who has time for that from the start? If I was at a party or at a bar or wherever would you hand me a bio, want me to read it and expect a clever interesting response based on the same stuff that a bunch of other bio's have? So you traveled, like coffee and sex, ok who doesn't? (Sarcasm) but seriously.. and now to my bio. Just ranting since we all know nobody likes internet dating. I much prefer meeting through friends but this is another means.
I'm a happy, silly at times (though my profile may sound a bit dry and straight forward), enthusiastic and generally positive person, I have a good life. I've been in sex positive successful open relationships. I'm got my shit together, talkative and fun software engineer. I'm an open book and communicative. I laugh, play/have fun, am emotionally mature, have a good IQ & EQ. I'm an strong male, with a caring heart, flirtatiously young, affectionate, very sexual, giving, bold, upfront, healthy, fit, take care of my body and value that, active, go with the flow spontaneous, and open-minded. I’m a balanced introvert/extrovert of sorts, I/ENTP.
I choose to live, be present to life and enjoy it, while taking care of things and looking ahead. I like exploring, learning, finding the greatness in life's little things, having my heart race, feeling passion for life and it’s moments, discovering, growing and evolving to a better version.
Staying safe by never going outside of your comfort zone, by never taking risks, is the riskiest thing you can do. Don't strategize for goals, achievements or focus so intently on what you can get; start enjoying the moments, the play, the risks, the discomfort and challenges and let go of the fears that freeze you and just start savoring.
I've traveled a bit around the world, and enjoy being active and have lots of different networks, can you roll with me? I once pulled a woman out of a crashed upside car, for reals. I've met Muhammed Ali and Jay-Z, true too. I've partied in buses and festivals. Backpacked at different national parks. Worked at NASA and scuba dived in Thailand. Danced in a tiny little bars in Colombia, ridden elephants, cliff dived in India. Read books at NYC public library (thought that's cool), tutored high school kids, stepped on a sea urchin, been held up at gun point, competed a triathlon. I've done scientific research and another time partied for several straight days. Snowboarded in several states, and protested in NYC. Been to crazy parties, and meditate with monks. Netflix and a couch is an awesome night, so are dinner parties, snuggling, not leaving the room and ordering room service, and cooking together. I'm adventurous, sensual, sexual, open-minded, not vanilla. I'm uninhibited, by cultural norms, yet I'm loyal with those closest to me and believe having a strong tribe whether that's through birth or through the people you meet is very important. I try and live my life and go on adventures when I can.
I also have a regular life which means, work and day to day stuff.